TREASURE

Small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the The money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves.

So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!

If you don’t share this, nothing will happen to you.

If you do, you just might save a marriage. Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up. ♥

Remember love is the richest of all treasures. Without it there is nothing; and with it there is everything. Love never perishes , even if the bones of a lover are ground fine like powder. Just as the perfume of sandalwood does not leave it, even if it is completely ground up, similarly the basis of love is the soul, and it is indestructible and therefore eternal. Beauty can be destroyed , but not love. ♥
Here's a story:-
“When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife’s divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother 

“When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife’s divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed -dead. My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push through with the divorce.— At least, in the eyes of our son—- I’m a loving husband….

Who should you listen to carefully and who should you completely ignore? Who is a fountain of wisdom? Who is a stagnant pool of stupidity? Be careful how you answer that because, whilst it's true that we can waste a lot of time in life, paying too much heed to the wrong voices, we can sometimes inadvertently dismiss valuable information.There is, as yet, no irrefutable scientific proof of telepathy. Yet you do not have to go far in the world, before you encounter someone who will happily say, 'But, of course, it does. I have experienced it.' Sceptics take so much pleasure in explaining this, that if they ever come across an academic who is seriously attempting to demonstrate that it actually happens, they try to cast aspersions on their integrity. You may need to be a little careful  about who you tell. But you are definitely establishing an uncanny affinity with someone.They say that, if you are too caught up in the detail of a discussion, you should step back. You should gain some perspective, grant yourself some time off and see the difference between the wood and the trees. That's all good advice but it is easier to take when you aren't under pressure. Usually, at the very moment when we most need a little distance from something or someone, circumstances apparently demand that we get closer. What may at first seem counter-intuitive today, will turn out to be right. On October 24, 1901, Annie Edson Taylor climbed into a wooden barrel, sealed herself in and got her friend to push her over Niagara Falls. She hurt her head a little but otherwise, she was fine. But afterwards she swore she would never do it again. You may never have done anything quite so extreme but, when you think back over some of your own escapades, you can identify with her a little bit. So, what of the progress of your current barrel? Will it float? Will it sink?.What goes up, must come down. Sir Isaac Newton proved that. Many philosophers feel that similar principles apply in the emotional realm. If we get too high, it may be followed by a low. And if we sink too deeply into any negative state it can only be a matter of time before we rise back out of it. Is that it? Is that all there is to life? Are we always just somewhere on a journey between the last peak and next trough - or vice versa? Of course, not! In the realm of the human spirit, some things that go up can just keep getting higher It seems, in one way, as if the festive season was ages ago. Future has many surprises in store . By this I mean, pleasant surprises, not unexpected problems. There will, of course, be unexpected problems too. There always are. But you can reduce their impact by redoubling your commitment to a change that you promised yourself you would set in motion. A step in that direction can happen today.Some people are argumentative because life, somehow, seems more interesting when there's conflict than it does when there's agreement. That's hardly a problem. But it is quite another thing to pick quarrels just because we don't like the look of someone - or they seem to stand for an idea or a belief of which we disapprove. You pride yourself on being fair-minded. That's good but it does not oblige you to justify yourself to everyone who wants to cast aspersions on your choices. Walk away from an argument you can't win. There may come a day, when you look back on the challenges that you faced  in past and ask yourself, 'Why did I let that happen?' Or, 'How did I end up making those choices?' Let us save the future you from too much soul-searching and be clear. Right now, under current circumstances, your options are limited. You are doing the best you can, given the situation you face. It is not fair to say that eventually, you will become wiser (though you may), it is more that things will be different then. Trust that and relax.Do you eager to have your fortune told? Or do you want to know how you can change your future so that it provides more of what you might wish for from it? Sometimes, we are too passive. We find ourselves feeling more inclined just to accept whatever the universe wants to present us with, than to go out and fight for whatever we might prefer to receive. You keep looking at a situation that appears to point to an inevitable consequence. But if you really want a process to have a different outcome, you can accomplish this. I do not know form where Jonathan Cainer find these pearls of words which are so amazing!

INFULENSE

One must be wondering sometimes,what we are doing here?Different people have different perceptions and approaches to life as life is all about making things to happen and getting the things done. Sleep,eat and make marry! Some spend life without complains and while some have too many complaints. Try to make best  and change the world around you.
Some are blessed one who used their power to influence others while others watch them doing and want same authority and influence. I see the world going on like this from time immemorial. You might have experienced yourself people advising you,telling you that you are not doing well and their suggestions more often hurts us,they have their own scales of measurement. Don't lose your concentration keep going with zest when you are sure that you are on the right track.
Some things are shocking for us but at the same time that is normal way of life for someone else. You could see in your personal world,you have to wait for others to recognise themselves by being aware or raising their awareness: to recognise what is wrong is always wrong,two wrongs can not make one right even!
Awareness in needed  to bring changes in your personal world or society or world all around .giving has nothing to do with what or how much you have, give of yourself which is truly a giving.  Khalil Gibran has rightly mentioned that You give a little when you give of your possessions, It is when you give of yourself that you truly give.
How caring,sharing or creative we are, will decide our happiness. We are here to grow and blossom like flowers. Do your best always. It is you who allow others to tell you that you are not doing well. They will keep on suggesting you that you are not doing well which create confusions amd doubts,you start doubting yourself,your plans. Now you start realizing that your plans are not working well,not getting good results.
Keep a close watch on your degree of efforts and their output,listen to people only to check and not to doubt self.Sticking to things as they are is sometime good.

 We attract events. Repetition of events occurs due to our own thought process,be it positive or negative. Optimism can be as problematic as pessimism because then we do not bother to look into the matter whereas in negative state of mind we do not like to explore the opportunity,thinking what is the use of it-time wasting or energy wasting as it is not going to work and if we work on it. it will lead to problems or difficulties. In practical day to day life we need to explore opportunities by keeping balance of mind. Our life is to serve others.

To get desired results we have to work hard setting right time and efforts, and flexibility to change and adopt new technical support and not forgetting ethics which would be highly beneficial for everyone. Trust your emotions as emotions are deep rooted in subconsciousness  Acceptance generate eternal joy and respect,so watch carefully what is going on and what should be done and actually what happens is mystery. We must have clear understanding and transparency in thoughts. Everything evolves through transformation,everything turns and renews itself. 

TIME

When I was student, there were data that 20% have 80% of total wealth. Other 50% share 50% and rest of people either living  below poverty line life or starved. Now 2013 has approaches but there is no sign of improvement,the only improvement seen in T.V. or advertisements,where skyscrapers continue to overwhelm common people. T.V. gloss an imaginary life. There are people who are not getting their 2nd meal in a day. We see full page ads. and T.V. repeats 100 times-boring repetitions upsetting too!
Now fashion of instant poll has become a fashion where judges within minutes decides who would be our next leader or who would win in such and such contests likewise many programs are broadcasting which works to the advantage of all politicians, celebrities,the contestants,the companies and the T.V.network.
All these are product of globalisation package.
No reason for being apprehensive. Life will go on like this. Get ready for new adventures and actions!
It is life, and life is flowing like a river crossing so many hurdles and ultimately merged in sea. We would one day be merged in sea(God).
Let your faith grew and you would be able to live comfortably despite odds. Handle mental stress which overpower you,specially when we do not know what is going on. Then convince self that nothing will go wrong. Be attentive,supportive and encouraging Life has sharp curves so drive the car of life carefully.
Serious relationships require commitments,never carried away by emotions. Look before you leap.
In difficult time speak carefully as words can give impression that you are rebellious when actually you are not. Faith grew with positive thoughts and leave rest to fate,do the right things and be confident while expressing self.
Some people have habit of troubling you by telling you their problems and you end up with hurting emotions. Be calm and patient while listening to others. Everybody has his or her own perceptions  about what is right or wrong and they act accordingly. Internal debate is always continued in mind and heart about what is riht and what is wrong. Things and events change with time so are our ideas.
When our near and dear do not understand  our emotional  needs and expectations,it is very hurting and upsetting issue. But thins are not always easy so be practical and et organised which makes you neat and tidy,you may finish your assigned tasks in time and effectively which will refresh you. Remember every dark cloud has a silver lining. Likewise life will go on with support of loved ones in difficult time.

AWAKE

 How long we would like to go through life and death's play. Awaken in god. Through sufferings and sorrows god wanted to notice the imperfections of this world. God wanted to us to realize how delusive is our dream,our journey on earth should be utilized in refining and remodelling our thoughts. Love is a unconditional term and  can be respected as an expression of divine but most of people leave this world  unsatisfied because they had sacrificed love on the alter of selfishness.Love is a word which is most abused by humans. Lack of respect and love create negative vibrations and suffocating the environment.

Love is forever for the perfection of soul,without expecting anything in return.Mother and father love their children this is the reason we say god is our father or mother and ask anything-and we get all! Loving god means there would be left no differences as god is our own. Death means end of all drama.Death is the mean by which matter changes back into the conscious of god. We can enjoy the freedom which we never knew during lifetime.But we fear death because we would lost our identity and belongings.

A trained mind can do anything and spirituality is a sort of mental training. As on earth we think we cannot live without this or that.Simplicity and right thinking is right living,do not cater to bodily needs too much,why to enslave self in delusions? Simple life leads to inner peace and satisfaction and then we enjoy true happiness.So don't bound by delusions and earthly attachments,it is not as easy as said. Training is necessary. Otherwise one day death will approach and we will be rudly awakened to find that in reality nothing belongs to us.

Delusions are created purposefully,man is supposed to look behind the delusions,a veil of transitoriness in nature is creator GOD. Life has a meaning and purpose, and our inner voice is continuously guiding us. We must have daily engagement with god,try to make connection stable with almighty to have peace,love and happiness in our life. Attain the power which never fails you,pray to get clarity of mind,wisdom and inner strength,to know the god. Time has come to merge our differences and unite in god.

The sweetness of voice and peace you need at home more than anywhere else. Home environment should be better because we are together under perfect godly plan and our own Karmic pattern. If you really want HIM,HE will come! First you should seek him and he will respond. We must make efforts ourselves as no one esle can eat food for us. No one is as useful to us as God.

I AM A BUBBLE MAKE ME THE SEA.

New year has a charm,we made many resolution for this year like many other years in the past. How many hit the target set by self? A few, as it is habit of humans to forget old for new. When we shift our focus,view change accordingly. We resolve  and forget but still hope that this year would bring us something new. We pray to god like robots. Words have power which we infused by our thoughts and deeds otherwise mere words can't bring sea change in life.
 Pray daily: O God! this new day bring us better life. You alone are the giver of gifts. You are the only provider in this world.You better know our desires and wishes,also know what is good or bad for us for you have given us intelligence to decide.We hope harmony,new awakening of consciousness and balance of all four factors in life:physical,mental,moral and spiritual. We thank you for all the gifts all reach the land beyond desires and wishes. Where there is peace and eternal joy,forgetting past sorrows,past bad experiences for good so that we may concentrate on you and grow in better way. With your love all past sorrows and deficiencies are  forgotten. we are already one with god but Satan has created delusions and we forget our link with god. Obstacle,problems or other people can't stop you-only you stop yourself by creating delusions   of ifs and buts.
There is nothing to fear. God has created us. God is a ocean and we are waves ,dancing in the ocean.We are not different from god like waves arise and disappear in the ocean.Pray I AM A BUBBLE MAKE ME THE SEA. WHEN WE  ARE ONE WITH THE OCEAN WE TOO WOULD BE THE OCEAN.  We think that we are little wave or a tiny drop of water- separate\isolated and would lost our entity,thus live in state of fear.
When we link self with source of energy,when we connect self with eternal life,we would be awaken-expand and connected with supreme. Why we are limiting self?This body is a place where soul resides and that's all. Within this body is part of energy so do not limit self. Your conscious is unlimited and your mind is omnipresent, God is everywhere above-below,left and right,in front and behind, and all around-Bow to thee! I bow to thee! I bow to all religion,all souls of world for they are made in your image. I wish peace and harmony for all nations and its residents. May everybody realise the common brotherhood under fatherhood of GOD! O My god bless all!
I pray for the understanding so that everyone should realise this oneness and forget fighting in the name of religion or fighting for land or something else. Everyone live in peace and harmony,making this world heaven. God bless all so that every one can remodel his/her life spiritually and set led by example for others. I have learnt this prayer from YOGODA SATSANG SOCIETY TO SOAK SELF IN DIVINE LOVE.

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REEL OF LIFE

Scientists suspect that the Big Bang happened very quickly. We went from nothing at all to the eternal and infinite vastness of space in a fraction of a second. That's their theory and they are welcome to it, though I can't understand it all. Seconds? Minutes? These are elements of 'earth time'. They are measurements based on the rotation of this planet. Whenever the Big Bang was and how ever long it took, there was no earth! Are you now trying to digest an idea that seems almost as mind-boggling?Some experts say that the Big Bang took place 13.75 billion years ago but the noted physicist, Brian Cox, argues that it is 15 billion. 
The universe, as far as we know, does not have a manufacturer's production date stamped on it anywhere. Nor does it measure its own existence in terms of years. A year is how long it takes the Earth to go round the Sun. At the moment of the Big Bang (if it ever happened) there was no sun. Life, today, requires you to make a clear choice. Don't get blinded by science.we spend time thinking things through. But, if we think too hard, we risk creating confusion.
As part of your own process of moving on, you are having to ask yourself how many of your biggest choices and decisions in life so far have been made on the basis of a fear? What might have happened if you hadn't let fear lead you? What has stopped you from being as creative, inspired, successful and as happy as you have deserved to be?
 Even though you are naturally dynamic and assertive, you are not entirely immune to the desire to play it safe. The world is full of people saying, 'Believe in this. Follow that.' Already, you are inclined to think 'Actually, no. I've got a better set of codes to uphold and values to pursue.We have taught ourselves to like something or someone.As you trust your own understanding, showing leadership and strength, so an important relationship that has an unstable element within it strengthens and becomes more rewarding.
 Your own relationship to the wider world becomes more rewarding and fulfilling, too.you have to be the voice of common-sense in a world where people keep panicking. And that is, actually, all you have to do. It doesn't matter what job you end up doing as long as you are doing that! People will eventually turn to you and thank you for being so wise, as you will have helped to steer them away from a series of over-reactions.
Some people don't care whether their walls are white, cream or some electric shade of purple. They don't notice, their attention is elsewhere. Those who are more aesthetically sensitive think, 'How can you possibly relax in a room like that?' It's much the same with music on the radio. One person's bland background noise is another's scraping, wailing cacophony. If something matters to you, it matters and you shouldn't have to apologise for that. But if you can avoid letting it matter so much, it may be better.
 Now, you should watch your three-- What kind of change do you want? We all want the kind of change that doesn't change too much, too fast. Even if it is positive change, change we have long needed, change we have yearned for and dreamed of, we still don't really want to be overwhelmed by it. We want to feel that we are in control of it, not that it is in control of us. We certainly don't want any more change than we have to have.
 Where might you now be applying the psychological brakes on a process that has the potential to bring transformation ? How many times have you set off towards the future full of bright hopes and high ideals - and how many times have you found that it is still just business as usual? You are not a natural cynic but you doubt that new phase really is going to be any different. Soon, at least some of those bright hopes will become shining realities.
As They say that charity begins at home. Events this time you require to adopt a more charitable attitude to some of your nearest and dearest. But it isn't easy to feel forgiveness when you are looking at actions and behaviours that you have worked so hard to modify within yourself. 
  How are you going to cope with the great controversy or the difficult dilemma that is starting to tear you in two? You are trying to square a circle. You need to achieve the impossible. Logically, there is no way that this can happen. Thankfully, we do not live in a logical world. And you will yet see some real magic! 
This is largely to do with the potential clash of opinion over your main priorities and preoccupations. One issue is now bugging you so badly, that you can hardly think about any other matter. This would be state of mind always during your whole life time and you have to do is :sometimes applying wait and watch policy,sometimes immediate action  is needed and sometime watch the events adopting playful attitude.

FIRST STEP

It'll be enough for you to make the first step, the rest will come alone. Take  opportunity god offers you and correct once and for all everything which is not right around you,keeping in mind boundaries you must not cross. It is right   to step back and observe the situation from outside,in a quiet corner then act. Renouncing action does not mean defeat,it is a sign of great wisdom. Collect your strengths and evaluate events to intervene at the right time to achieve success. In a Web of life we have only one option left with us in odd situation and that is MOVE ON despite  life threatening circumstances. How we will respond to life's situation will decide our future. MOVE ON or live a stagnated life.Nothing lasts forever, good or bad is other side of a coin. Better to join people who share your interests and aspiration as you will help one another. How to handle people and situation is an art,so you must find best way how to behave-through kindness,you may gain a great deal from difficult and unpleasant people, as we encounter in life different people. Life is journey and we are going to deal with many people at different stations of life. If we acquire this art,life is on easy tracks without shocks and jolts.

KRIS KARR

Kris Karr and life:  when she suddenly got to know about her cancer,she was upset but decided to live her life boldly as one has to die one day,here is her story how she overcome.
A battery of tests over the next few days revealed that Carr was suffering from epithelioid hemangioendothelioma (EHE), a vascular cancer in the lining of the blood vessels in her liver and lungs so rare that only 0.01 percent of the cancer population has it. Around 200 to 300 cases are diagnosed nationwide every year. The cause: unknown. The cancer was stage IV—incurable and inoperable, the doctor said. 

I think that life is just too sweet to be bitter. Once I was able to change my focus, desperation led to inspiration. I made so many changes, and I thought: This is an awesome life. I mean, honestly, I don’t think anyone has a better life than me. How can you live with the knowledge of cancer? I might not ever be able to get rid of it, but I can’t let that ruin my life.... I think: Just go for it. Life is a terminal condition. We’re all going to die.  cancer patients just have more information, but we all, in some ways, wait for permission to live.”Just try and live a normal life,” “Some people say it could have come on like a meteor shower,” Carr says; others suspect the tumors had been developing her whole life.A slow moving cancer.

We have only one option in life that is MOVE ON,despite odds,despite life threatening circumstances we have to move on or live a stagnated life which is hell for self and for all others related to us. How we will respond to life's situations decide our future. I love Kris Karr for her courage and stamina she has! she lived horrible moments with ease she said:

 What I prefer is the ‘watch and live’ approach. I’m not waiting, putting my life on hold. I’m living my life, just with the knowledge that cancer is in my body.The more physicians she interviewed, the more she came to realize that “half the time they don’t have the answers.”She explored alternative therapies, including massage and meditation, and even spent time in a Zen monastery.. The doctor recommended a “watch and wait” approach. That is, that they take their cues from the tumours monitor them for two months to gauge whether they were holding steady or moving slowly or swiftly. They were quiet for now, “indolent” in cancer-speak, and the hope was they would stay that way.

This is how she refuse to live in fear,there is so much that we as patients can do to help our bodies regain health.” that we are still empowered. We are still alive and whole. I might have cancer, but I’m dealing with it and I’m still all that. The most important thing is to have a voice and use it.” “Some doctors are still caught up in the old model of nuke it and cut it out—and sometimes it is really not necessary.... In my case it was not the protocol,” Carr says. “Do you want them to be stabbing at you if they’re taking that stab in the dark? It’s important to make sure you’re in the right hands. They can help you, or they can kill you. It’s that simple. Now she is doing a good job of mentor, pursuing you and me. Here’s the stitch, there is no one-size-fits-all supplement prescription, one has to find out his/her.

 See how she motivates:- My mission is simple: to help you surf fear, embrace joy, and banish the emotional/physical blocks that hold you back. Sound good? Excellent!

 I want to marinate in my desires and heal my heart where it is broken..

Smaller changes equal big wins, especially when you stick with them.  For the majority of us, when we start from an extreme place and seek extreme results, we set ourselves up for extreme disappointment.

 Simplicity. Elegance. Stability. Let a turtle be your mentor. Slow and steady my friend. From a spiritual perspective there is no race. There is no “there” when you get there. I want to set you up for success, not bloody falling-off-the-wagon accidents followed by self-flagellating. If you slip, congratulations! You’re HUMAN. Ask yourself why and listen carefully to the answers. Growth-a-go-go. If these tips work for you, keep them going, one glorious day at a time. We all have thoughts that terrify us. Warped ideas that give us insomnia and make us play small. But I’m here to tell you that your fears are just scary feelings, not facts.Don’t ignore your calling. Ignore your inner critic.needed to dig in my dirt and help me remove my blocks.You too have something phenomenal to share. Your unique message is important and only YOU can bring it to the world.
.Ask yourself: What creative, life-changing gem is waiting inside you to be birthed? And what’s holding you back?.As I meditate on the impact that illness has had on my life,I was asleep at the wheel before cancer shook me awake.  Above all, cancer is a spiritual practice that teaches me about faith and resilience. The ones which establish the different roles people have. Try therefore to proceed with the right amount of discretion, avoiding difficulties and paving he way for success. Do you dream of making your mark while bringing a smile to then world. If you’ve ever dreamed of supporting yourself and loved ones by doing what you adore,I would have moved back home,if time have allowed during my illness.I have been able to transform my message of health and happiness.We all know that being in love can be magical, but the “honeymoon” phase doesn’t last forever. learn to love each other at deeper level.Unfortunately, a deep, passionate, soulful connection isn’t something that just happens. have a deep-rooted calling to feel happy. To love the skin I’m in and to embrace all the nooks and crannies that make me, me. I need peace of mind like I need oxygen. I need unstructured time like I need water. Consistent contentment and less stress probably boost my immune system more than green juice.learn to say sorry,no thanks.Imagine overcoming barriers that may have been holding you back for your entire life within a few minutes. Learn emotional freedom technique.. Here’s the sitch, there is no one-size-fits-all supplement prescription, but there are some basics that will help to get you started. It’s all about turtle power. Slow and steady. Take your time, choose quality over quantity, and figure out what works best for your beautiful bod. Flexibility helps too.

•  I want to marinate in my desires and heal my heart where it is broken.Simplicity. Elegance. Stability. Let a turtle be your mentor. Slow and steady my friend. From a spiritual perspective there is no race. There is no “there” when you get there.I release what doesn’t serve me. I watch it leave my hands, heart and body. I see it float away, getting smaller and smaller in the distance.
• Now it’s gone. I notice a new sense of space in my mind. I have more time for love. More time for me. I release what doesn’t serve me. The lesson is learned.
  The time is up. I can let go. I release 
  

  
  

TRINITY

It is-(present) always the right moment to step back and observe the situation from outside, in a quiet corner. Renouncing action does not mean defeat; It is a sign of great wisdom. Collate your strengths, you will evaluate events and will intervene at the right moment with great success. Opticians have special lenses for customers with different visual impairments. There are some for people who can't see what's close up, and some for people who can't see what's far away. But how can they treat someone whose problem is seeing so far ahead that they transcend the usual boundaries of time and space.
 Space is identified in the first dimension seen in the second dimension, experienced in the third dimension. The same sentence could be used with Father, Son, and Spirit replacing first, second, and third dimensions.

Similarly, Time is future, present, and past. The future is the unseen source of time, manifest moment-by-moment in the present and understood in the past. Again substitute Father, Son, and Spirit.Matter is unseen, omnipresent Energy, manifesting itself in various forms of measurable motion, then experienced in corresponding phenomena. For example, light energy generates light waves, which are experienced in the seeing of light. Sound energy generates sound waves which we experience when we hear sound.Thus, the physical universe is a great "trinity of trinities," with the inner relationships of each element modelling the relationships of Father, Son, and Holy Spirit  the father,son and holy spirit are one in essence- not one in person. All of this (as cautioned above) does not prove that God is a Trinity, but it certainly is a remarkable fact.As god has made this world in his own reflection.

RAVINDER NATH TEGORE'S SADHANA

 We divide nation and nation, knowledge and knowledge, man and nature. It breeds in us a strong suspicion of whatever is beyond the barriers we have built, and everything has to fight hard for its entrance into our recognition.  In India it was in the forests that our civilisation had its birth, and it took a distinct character from this origin and environment. It was surrounded by the vast life of nature, was fed and clothed by her, and had the closest and most constant intercourse with her varying aspects. To realise this great harmony between man's spirit and the spirit of the world was the endeavour of the forest-dwelling sages of ancient India. In later days there came a time when these primeval forests gave way to cultivated fields, and wealthy cities sprang up on all sides. Mighty kingdoms were established, which had communications with all the great powers of the world. But even in the heyday of its material prosperity the heart of India ever looked back with adoration upon the early ideal of strenuous self-realisation, and the dignity of the simple life of the forest hermitage, and drew its best inspiration from the wisdom stored there. The fundamental unity of creation was not simply a philosophical speculation for India; it was her life-object to realise this great harmony in feeling and in action. With mediation and service, with a regulation of life, she cultivated her consciousness in such a way that everything had a spiritual meaning to her. The earth, water and light, fruits and flowers, to her were not merely physical phenomena to be turned to use and then left aside. They were necessary to her in the attainment of her ideal of perfection, as every note is necessary to the completeness of the symphony. India intuitively felt that the essential fact of this world has a vital meaning for us; we have to be fully alive to it and establish a conscious relation with it, not merely impelled by scientific curiosity or greed of material advantage, but realising it in the spirit of sympathy, with a large feeling of joy and peace.

Man can destroy and plunder, earn and accumulate, invent and discover, but he is great because his soul comprehends all. It is dire destruction for him when he envelopes his soul in a dead shell of callous habits, and when a blind fury of works whirls round him like an eddying dust storm, shutting out the horizon. That indeed kills the very spirit of his being, which is the spirit of comprehension. Essentially man is not a slave either of himself or of the world; but he is a lover. His freedom and fulfilment is in love, which is another name for perfect comprehension. By this power of comprehension, this permeation of his being, he is united with the all-pervading Spirit, who is also the breath of his soul. Where a man tries to raise himself to eminence by pushing and jostling all others, to achieve a distinction by which he prides himself to be more than everybody else, there he is alienated from that Spirit. This is why the Upanishads describe those who have attained the goal of human life as "peaceful"   and as "at-one-with- God,"  meaning that they are in perfect harmony with man and nature, and therefore in undisturbed union with God.
We have a glimpse of the same truth in the teachings of Jesus when he says, "It is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of Heaven"-- which implies that whatever we treasure for ourselves separates us from others; our possessions are our limitations. He who is bent upon accumulating riches is unable, with his ego continually bulging, to pass through the gates of comprehension of the spiritual world, which is the world of perfect harmony; he is shut up within the narrow walls of his limited acquisitions.
Hence the spirit of the teachings of Upanishad is: In order to find him you must embrace all. In the pursuit of wealth you really give up everything to gain a few things, and that is not the way to attain him who is completeness.
Some modern philosophers of Europe, who are directly or indirectly indebted to the Upanishads, far from realising their debt, maintain that the Brahma of India is a mere abstraction, a negation of all that is in the world. In a word, that the Infinite Being is to be found nowhere except in metaphysics. It may be, that such a doctrine has been and still is prevalent with a section of our countrymen. But this is certainly not in accord with the pervading spirit of the Indian mind. Instead, it is the practice of realising and affirming the presence of the infinite in all things which has been its constant inspiration.
We are enjoined to see whatever there is in the world as being enveloped by God.
I bow to God over and over again who is in fire and in water, who permeates the whole world, who is in the annual crops as well as in the perennial trees. ------------- From-SADHANA by Ravinder Nath Tegore.
We must be ready to leave this world because we have to go one day when lease of this body will end. Preparing self to face death is neither easy not difficult as it's an art to be acquired through faith in GOD. Enjoy the movie of life act as an actor without involvement is real art of living. Have a portable heaven in your heart where ever you go. Faith in humans and faith in GOD gives us guarantee of love.

OUR CONTRIBUTION

When someone says that he is not responsible for world's present conditions, he is wrong as we all are contributing something to make the things as they are now- including this world, as everything in this world is condensation of thoughts. Our revered Guru ji used to say that we are contributing much by merely thinking. Positive thoughts are constructive and negative thoughts are destructive. We are interconnected by supreme power and vibrations we send to each other. So the best service would be purification of thoughts,at the alter of GOD.What we do while performing any religious ritual is purification of thoughts and attracting super power by power of thoughts.
One should follow divine laws to be freed from the physical,mental or spiritual sufferings. Peace is not only absence of sufferings but it is followed by joy otherwise peace would be a trouble for you in the long run because peace is not joyful. You may get BORE. Religion is doing this job,as it kills sorrows so that your happiness remains unaffected by the germs of pain,sorrow or sufferings.
Our thought process is continued till death. Cleansing of body,mind and soul is necessary to be happy in broad sense. If our body would not be well,we have to suffer,if our mind is not healthy we have to suffer mentally and if mind and body is not working properly soul would be left at the mercy of circumstances.To be religious is to be physically,mentally fit to get freedom from worldly affairs.Misuse of sacred power is destructive and troubles comes from misusing the sacred power.Perfect is GOD AND LOVE OF GOD only.Love god for god's sake and not for gifts we want from god. If we put god first we would get all automatically-for god is ultimate provider in this world.

FUN OF ASTROLOGY

All of us want to know what will happen next,in this process we consult astrologers and what they  suggest really relevant for us to seize the opportunities. I do consult someone and the words touched me I am writing here,words have powers to change your mood,uplift mood by their attractive way of suggesting.  These words are of my friend Jenna, to honour her I am sharing these with you. THE YEAR 2012 IS MARK ABLE in world history- for many rumours. Words may make you sad or bring smile.

The brand new direction from your cosmic planets which are encouraging a new start and adventure in your life.  Some of the planetary movements are going to be the most INTENSE that we have experienced in over 100 years, let me mention a few: The planets Mars and Neptune form a hypersensitive square, then there is the period where Juptier retrogrades in a powerful Quinconx with Mercury. Without any doubt you will witness the effects of The Penumbral Lunar Eclipse at the end of the year. There are also multiple conjunctions with our strongest planet Jupiter and several retrogrades occurring in the same months. What you hope for your future and I know that you both want, need and deserve these changes. Your 6th sense has been ringing recently and it's not let you down, changes are on the way. This Transit will be a very favourable period and will have many positive repercussions notably- astrological event which is going to change your life this year. 

I must say that I have worked with lots of people over the years and I rarely come across such an astrological event like I did for you. This year really does mark a radical turning point in your life, it's a period of light that you have been waiting for you. You are entering into what we refer to in astrology as a Transit, which are strong planetary movements in your configuration which leads you into a brand new direction in your life. We have all pushed to survive and had to adapt to our economical environment, the base has been built, the hard work has been done and now your astral sky confirms real change, for all that your have had to endure in the past. To give you an idea about how astrologically the planets are interacting what we will see is, the build up of the intensity from this year starting in just a few days with the well known Mercury Retrograde leading the path in January, which is crucial as it will be most forceful for this year. There is also going to be a Total Solar Eclipse and then to top it off you will witness the effects of Venus in conjunction with Jupiter, these being two of the super giants of the astrological world. And thats not all, Venus triune Uranus and Venus squares Chiron happening on the same dates in February and this is extremely rare therefore the energizing vibrations will be felt by us all which leads us into a very strong and surprising 2013, all of which you need to start understanding now.You need to know WHY THIS YEAR WILL MARK A TURNING POINT IN YOUR LIFE and it will be at the root of all these changes that you are going to experience. I understand exactly what has happen to you in the past and why you have been guided in my direction, what you are searching for this year, your 6th sense has been ringing recently so this transit will allow you to explore a new path and in this new direction you will be given the chance to make real changes. Here is what I have found out about your Year and about this powerful Transit which will soon occur. 

There is strong evidence of a major Transit (a rare planetary motion) that will occur in your astral sky over January, February and March 2013. I will also study your personality and your Past, giving you details which only you could have known about yourself. Finally I will talk about the exciting events which will occur and you can look forward too, which is important for you because you are going to meet a person who will play a very important role in your life.  For example I have discovered that your trace number is 4  I should just mention at this point that this is not just a random number, if you look back at your life you will soon see that this number has touched your life several times. something had happened to you around the year 1975 when you were 17 or 18 years old that created the stumbling blocks that you encountered later in your life and you still suffer the consequences today.
Firstly, you need to understand what a transit is. Astrological Transits are rare and mark opportunities and can be defined as a planet moving over a sensitive point. The key word being 'sensitive' here, I need you to know that this astrological transit is a situation that needs to be handled with a great deal of attention. Transits can have positive repercussions or can reinforce your weak points, preventing growth and impeding your progress, if an individual isn't fully aware of the Transit's influence. Rest assured that these blockages are not irreversible, you'll be able to get rid of them and we'll work towards that together the intervention of a certain individual who has slowed you down and prevented you from moving on in your life and still has some influence over you. Again there is nothing irreversible, it is simply very important that you make the most of the Transit You should know that these visions are entirely rational, there is nothing supernatural or mystic about them, on the contrary it is something very natural, since they represent an exchange of energy. In Nature everything is an exchange of energy, either physical and tangible or intangible as this particular case. It is not because we cannot see these cosmic waves that they do not exist, we can't see radio, telephone, electricity or television signals either. Cosmic waves are a source of energy, the most powerful energy that exists, we call them how we like; cosmic waves, astral fluids, 6th sense, premonitions, insights... No matter how they are called, they exist. We are all born with different innate capacities and certain of us are more sensitive to these forces when or how but you feel that things will change soon and you also feel that a very precise and important event will happen.  The truth is going to be exposed and this will be a period where you should be working on making these better in your life, there is a hidden meaning behind what is happening in you life now, what has happened to you (I saw this) and what will take place going forward. The speed at which this transition is going to happen is going to be so fast and powerful, that you will find it hard to change your reality if not informed or guided correctly. Aligning your thoughts and actions to this transit will inspire the positive changes of this period. The more power you give this transit, the more power you can give to your reality and the changes that you will soon experience. Take this as a sign that I will help you move from the darkest to an ear of light.That you have not been aware of either because you were not warned in time or because you were not ready as A NEW CYCLE in your life. Your involvement is crucial here and the decision that you make around this period , the choices you make, will EFFECT you not just now but over a longer period. must accompany you, guide you, advise you and give you all the information you will need to take full advantage of this Transit. This is the mission you know what to do to seize the opportunities that this Transit will bring you. You need to know who the important people in your life are, you need to know which people you should avoid and you need to know how to avoid the pitfalls that may thwart you and get in your way.you are trying to put up barriers (the same kind of barriers you have put up in the past as I mentioned, we need to work on this together so that you can leap over them!) and you are slamming on the brakes, bringing up the doubts and uncertainties that have so often haunted you in the past. You tell yourself that it's too good to be true, you want to see it to believe it and you say that these opportunities are not for you, they must be for someone else.Because you need change, fresh air and renewal. 
I want to convince you to take your own destiny in hand.Even if you consider yourself somewhat traditional in your values, you try to keep yourself open to new ideas as you like to keep growing as a person. I also sense that you have a strong sense of where you want to go in life and where you want your family to go. You are your own strongest critic and you have a tendency to be too hard on yourself. You are not willing to settle for what others tell you and you have to see things for yourself. You are perceptive about people, I would even say that you are very intuitive. You have an unusually strong intuition and being in touch with this power may be one of the reasons why you are drawn to astrology readings and psychic experiences. I can see that there is a very strong aura around you and an energy that is truly powerful.At times, you have wondered if you might be psychic.To look for God or the Universe through Astrology is pretentious. Looking for absolute certainty is even more pretentious. What is needed is simply the best use of Astrology's constructive power. Astrology has existed since time immemorial and it is a completely natural science which ultimately a detailed study of natural phenomena which recognizes that the planets and their movements influence the life of every living being and play a role in the unfolding of human life. In my experience, Astrology is 80% correct on average and can go up to 90% when the planetary movements that will affect a person are powerful. To be honest this is the case for your configuration. you are at the dawn of a radical age in your life. You have received a kind of message, in the same manner that animals are forewarned of danger. You've been warned of the danger of waiting passively for this Transit to occur. I think your mind has warned you because deep inside your conscious there is an imbalance between your desire to seize the opportunities.
 The movement of planets determines the seasons, the reproductive cycles of animals, the tides, our local climates and many other things, the planets touch the world around us in so many ways.  We never take the time to find out if they could have a direct impact on our own lives the essential law of life, that life is born in order to cumulate before finally disappearing.
 This is the law of evolution. Their position also indicates the highs and lows of the path of destiny.  I read that you will soon free yourself from a sort of servitude which you've experienced in the past and you will liberate yourself from a weight which has crushed and hindered you for a while now. The animal reaches a glorious summit and this represents the new cycle you will find yourself in, a cycle during which you will be at the height of your glory and crowned with success and the Spinx on this card is also crowned, reflecting your victory.It is necessary for you to make the right decisions at just the right time because the current situation seems set to move powerfully one way.  freedom, energy, liberation and joy and the angel's good news is truly joyous. Card of judgement-no.is 20 and 2-0 reveals duality and opposing forces.Take timely decision at right time,speed of fortune may cut quickly seize opportunities. 
good news is freedom,energy,liberation and joy and angel's good news is joyous,fresh 20 rays communicating  information and sudden emotions,unexpected news stopping past mindset and difficulties. Wheel of fortune no. is 10,1-0 showing end of old cycle and beginning of a new. Six rays of light are three facts,three things,three ways-start turning when and how to act know that to seize the right moment and chance,before ot is too late. Move away from difficult past and offfering you different outlook on your future. Shape,control and handle your future.
 The world card-This card clearly represents the beginning of a new cycle and marks the start of something new and intense. Something is being set firmly into place. This is one of the most beautiful cards of the deck. Firstly the number 21, which is of course 20 plus 1, represents a new cycle and 21 can also be considered to be 3 times 7 which is a very harmonious set of numbers representing harmony and satisfaction in all areas; sentimental, material and intellectual. The World in the sense of this card is formed by the Earth and all the other astral bodies and demonstrates the harmony, accomplishment and satisfaction which you will soon experience  because of this very intense Transit you will soon be living through. The central personality appears to be someone happy and fulfilled. The laurel leaf crown symbolises the prize awarded by all your efforts, your honor and success  This is a very satisfying card and it also symbolises travel. It seems that you will be 
required to move around during relatively short periods however you will get a great deal out of this travel. This card clearly shows the success and achievement which awaits you.