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Sunday, 30 June 2013

YOU AND WE

Do you get the feeling that the cosmos is trying to tell you something about the way your emotional life is developing? Perhaps it isn't. Perhaps all those odd little developments, which seem as if they're all pointing towards the same conclusion, are just coincidences. Perhaps those signs, signals and suggestions are intended for someone else... or are to be interpreted as advisory comments, not emphatic orders. Perhaps. And perhaps, if you keep ignoring the more subtle hints, the universe will have to start shouting!
You carry such a weight on your shoulders yet you handle it with such poise and grace. Even if you complain, you only express a small fraction of the disgruntlement that you feel. You hold so much together, you are solid as a rock, you are splendid and you are strong. Or at least most of the time that's what you are like. Once in a while, things aren't so easy and the cracks start to show. Sometimes you can patch them over, sometimes you have to open them up a little and do a structural repair. But that's nothing to fear now. Trust this and go ahead.
Success and failure are, like deep love and intense hatred, two sides of one dangerously overvalued coin. Whichever way up it lands when you flip it, there's a constant danger it will suddenly turn over again. And, when you try to spend such a coin, even if you proffer it the preferred way up, you soon discover it rarely buys what you need. Success is more often envied than admired, love is more often abused than rewarded. Be more moderate in your heart and in your judgement of your status and you'll be better off.
You really don't have to put up with a situation you find impossible or unbearable. There may be no way to wave a magic wand and make everything wonderful, but there is, nonetheless, an important element in your love life over which you have plenty of choice. It is almost as if you feel offended or upset by the fact that you face a particular problem. It makes you feel inclined not to try or to bother. 'If that can go wrong,' you argue, 'so can everything else.' Not so. You do have power you can use. Now is the time to exploit it
What's happening behind your back? What's going on just out of your sight? What secret conversations might be happening in places where you can't overhear them? And what would it matter, even if any of this were actually going on at all, which it isn't. Your time is too precious to waste worrying about circumstances you can't control or ways in which other people's agendas may not be as clear or as faultless as you might wish. Even if a situation is 'less than ideal', it is less 'less than ideal' than you fear.
 Right. Wrong. Two little words. So easy to say. So easy to defend. So easy, too, to arrogantly, inappropriately apply. We all want to be right. Only those of us with terrible problems of self-esteem, see ourselves as wrong. And if that is the case, we are wrong to see ourselves as wrong. Likewise, many overly assertive folk are wrong to see themselves as right. Now, with all that in mind, let us look at the rights and wrongs of a situation in your personal life. Don't attribute blame. Don't judge. Just be as loving as you can! 
Is there someone, somewhere, who is better than you? How about someone who deserves more? Is there a real reason for you to have to settle for second-best? I'm asking these questions only in an attempt to provoke a reaction. You may not have all the wealth in the world or all the power but that's just due to a temporary quirk in the cosmic distribution system. Whilst you can't just go out and claim what has not yet been delivered to you, you can at least hold your head high and trust that it will only be a matter of time.
Very few things can ever really happen in just one way, at just one time. Even life's supposedly unrepeatable experiences and opportunities have a way of coming back round sooner or later. That doesn't mean that we should take anyone or anything for granted; we should always seize the moment. We should never be lethargic or blase. Yet nor should we worry if something seems to be slipping from our grasp. Either it needs to be let go of or you will find yourself able to catch hold of it again when the time is right.
Other people don't quite see the world in the way that you see it. That's not because you are wrong and they are right, rather to the contrary. You have an ability to notice nuance that seems to fly right over the heads of other observers. You can read situations deftly and accurately. You can detect, from a small clue, some piece of information that is likely to prove highly significant. These  abilities will stand you in good stead; just don't expect all your expectations to be immediately understood.
 When you close your eyes, you can see anything you want to see. Why then, when you open them, can't you be anything you want to be? What keeps you in your place? What stifles your creativity? What limits your power? What suppresses your potential? Over the course of the time, you may gain a much greater insight into the reason for a difficulty. You should also become enthused with an inspiring new vision. Don't assume that your exciting hope is something that can never come to pass. It can... and it will.
Vegetarians are often teased by meat-eaters who say, 'How do you know that plants don't have feelings too?' And, there's no answer to this. We don't know any such thing. Trees and flowers may well have emotions, even opinions and, as sensitive human beings, we should surely make an effort to be as responsive as possible. But then, there comes a point where we all have to draw a line for the sake of our sanity. When you draw that line in your life now, make sure that those who matter most to you are on the right side of it. 
Your trouble is, you are too generous. You give away too much of your time, sympathy and even your money. All that is understandable. Laudable even. There is never, though, any good reason to give away your power. Already, lately, you have begun to reclaim some of the authority and respect you deserve. Soon, you will rediscover a sense of being much more 'in control'. Though responsibility comes alongside this, so too, does strength and energy. A marked overdue improvement in your emotional life is coming.

YOU AND WE

There are always problems. And there are always solutions too! Speaking of solutions,is only hope.When we get to Heaven, we will know we have arrived in the right place because it will look like an advert off the telly. There will be bright beautiful lights. Colours will be rich and full. People will be smiling. They will have sparkling eyes and perfect teeth. All our favourite products will be available at affordable prices. And we'll know it isn't Hell because? It won't be hot and smelly! Be wary, of superficial distinctions based on artificial assumptions. Uphold only the highest values and you'll get only the best results.

Some people's homes are immaculate. Gleaming floors, spotless sofas, not a hair out of place anywhere. Mind you, the residents all hate each other - or they are depressed and dysfunctional. But who cares as long as the vacuum cleaner roars and the dishwasher hums? Cleanliness may be next to godliness but in this world, many slums adjoin many a palatial mansion. You can't judge a house by its neighbouring properties. 

Never mind how things look, how do they feel? That's what really matters.You're fired up with expectation, energy and excitement. You're not exactly ecstatic about a situation, but you are at least willing to rise to what seems like a vast challenge. You are ready for anything other, perhaps, than what now seems to be taking place. The drama, adventure, risk or point of conflict is fading faster than a mirage in the desert. You can't understand it and you feel let down. Now what? Nothing. That's what. All you have to do is relax, readjust and accept that life is moving on, in the best way.Relaxed, creative thought can often accomplish what no amount of tense determination can do.

 If, to pick a simplistic example, you're sitting in a traffic jam, you can honk, rev the engine and curse the car in front all you like. But your energy is surely better spent pulling your car off the road, consulting a map and finding an alternative route. If you're prepared to try your luck and use your wits you'll come up with an approach that makes a very big difference. But try not to be too hasty... nor too obvious.
Right. Wrong. Two little words. So easy to say. So easy to defend. So easy, too, to arrogantly, inappropriately apply. We all want to be right. Only those of us with terrible problems of self-esteem, see ourselves as wrong. And if that is the case, we are wrong to see ourselves as wrong. Likewise, many overly assertive folk are wrong to see themselves as right.

 Now, with all that in mind, let us look at the rights and wrongs of a situation in your personal life. Don't attribute blame. Don't judge. Just be as loving as you can!Your trouble is, you are too generous. You give away too much of your time, sympathy and even your money. All that is understandable. Laudable even. There is never, though, any good reason to give away your power. Already, lately, you have begun to reclaim some of the authority and respect you deserve. Soon, you will rediscover a sense of being much more 'in control'. Though responsibility comes alongside this, so too, does strength and energy. A marked overdue improvement in your emotional life is coming.

 TV guides sell better than almost any other magazines. Why are these publications so popular? Perhaps it is because so many of us yearn so dearly for a life in which everything is predictable. In a world of constant change it is reassuring to know that you can turn on the TV at a given time and see exactly what the schedule has promised you. Your own emotional and personal life now, is running like anything other than clockwork. Yet the surprise you are about to receive should fill you with excitement, not fear.

They say that if you find a successful formula, stick to it. You can relate to that. But sometimes formulae get results in spite of, rather than because of, their intrinsic merit. Think of the way kids try to avoid cracks between paving stones. They fear that if they fail, the monster will get them. So they do not fail. They avoid those cracks. And as the monster does not subsequently get them, they feel they have proof that their plan has worked. How many imaginary monsters are you avoiding in your emotional life now? It's time to relax!

Radio phone-in hosts keep a list of hot topics by their microphones. When the lines go quiet, they simply read out a contentious statement. They know that people are easily wound-up and enjoy being aggravated! Everyone likes to have an opinion. Everyone enjoys feeling outraged. Likewise, we all enjoy leaping to the defence of our favourite causes. Where you are enjoying an expression of passion  go with it. But don't become the victim of an emotion that it is actually wiser to suppress than to express. Think about your favourite work of art. 

Consider the best movie you ever saw. Someone, somewhere, truly hated it. If they had expressed an opinion at an early stage of the work's development and if that point of view had been taken seriously, the piece might never have seen the light of day. We have to be so careful with criticism. We also have to be careful about whose opinions we listen to. Don't be deterred by a conflict of interest or a clash of idea. 

What seems right to you is right. Trust that and persevere.They say that 'power corrupts and absolute power corrupts absolutely.' How do they know? Absolute power? Who the heck has ever had that? From a theological point of view, only one entity has absolute power, so if it really does corrupt absolutely, what does that say about the Supreme Creator?  it is clear that you are far from omnipotent in one key area of life. Actually... that's just as well! You've got just enough power to ensure a positive outcome to the most difficult drama. What else do you need?

 We are surrounded by people who tell us that all we have to do is keep everything simple. Unfortunately, they then go on to describe a hundred extremely convoluted methods by which to do things. And then, of course, there are the universities, where impressionable teenagers are taught to take basic, obvious notions and express them in the longest possible sentences containing the greatest number of long words. What's needed in your life ? Exactly what you think. Will it work? You bet it will!

You don't have time to sit around . You need to get a move on. Run a little faster. Try harder. Worry more. Relax a little less. Or rather, don't. Don't succumb to the pressure. Don't let yourself be wound up into a frenzy. Don't panic, don't overreact, don't try to control a chaotic situation. And don't fall for that old trick of telling yourself you have no time left. Your 'deadline' is more flexible than you think. Take all the time you want, and more. The slower you go, the you will get the right.

































YOU AND WE

 We all go through difficult experiences. We all find ourselves in circumstances that we wish we had never entered and wonder how we are ever going to get out of them. But never is that the full story of our lives. We all get to know joy and happiness too. There are times when it seems almost impossible to remember the good because the bad seems so bad. But then, when life is good, it is so good that it makes everything seem worthwhile. You can be, by turns, a ferocious creature and a cuddly pussycat. You can inspire both awe and adoration. Yet you do not always make the most of your natural charisma. It is as if you forget the effect that you have on others and sometimes imagine yourself to be unprepossessing vulnerable. But even when you think you are making little or no impact, you remain a force to be reckoned with if someone had managed to survive such an unnerving experience eighteen times, they might well have reached the point where they could take such a sense of inner collapse in their stride, at least to the point where they felt able to compose a song about it. You have gained great strength from every difficult experience you have ever had in the past. Collecting inner strengths and move on are life's wheel.
 In love you may also have something to say about your family life, your closest friendships and even some of your most important working relationships,love is vast.
Psychics tell us that we all have auras: invisible halos of light so large and bright that, if more of us could only see them, we'd all widen our doorways for fear of damaging them on our way through. And that's as nothing compared to the cartloads of invisible memories we all drag along behind us plus the secret streams of hope and desire that we project so far into the future. There's more to you than meets the eye. There's more to another person too. Do more looking and less leaping. It's time to appreciate more of what you've got.Success and failure are, like deep love and intense hatred, two sides of one dangerously overvalued coin. Whichever way up it lands when you flip it, there's a constant danger it will suddenly turn over again. And, when you try to spend such a coin, even if you proffer it the preferred way up, you soon discover it rarely buys what you need. Success is more often envied than admired, love is more often abused than rewarded. Be more moderate in your heart and in your judgement of your status and you'll be better off.
 Fill in a form. Now, fill in another. Why? Well, if you really want to know, you will have to fill in another form before we can tell you. Not sure how to fill it in? You can have help. To apply for it, all you have to do is fill in a form! Bureaucracy is a wonderful thing. What's wrong with the world today? Too much spontaneity, not enough form filling in! Or perhaps not. But that's what some people seem to think. Watch, now, for the tendency to apply too much common sense to what's essentially an emotional, magical impulse.As the emotional pressure intensifies, the potential for passion increases and the communication between you and someone else gets ever more tricky, we have to ask how you ended up in a situation like the one you now face? You don't have time to pick over all the details and there's no point in attributing blame. You are where you are and all that matters is that you move on from here. Take a moment to recall one defining incident in the chain of events that led to this point. Within that development is the key to your next step.Do you get the feeling that the cosmos is trying to tell you something about the way your emotional life is developing? Perhaps it isn't. Perhaps all those odd little developments, which seem as if they're all pointing towards the same conclusion, are just coincidences. Perhaps those signs, signals and suggestions are intended for someone else... or are to be interpreted as advisory comments, not emphatic orders. Perhaps. And perhaps, if you keep ignoring the more subtle hints, the universe will have to start shouting!
You really don't have to put up with a situation you find impossible or unbearable. There may be no way to wave a magic wand and make everything wonderful, but there is, nonetheless, an important element in your love life over which you have plenty of choice. It is almost as if you feel offended or upset by the fact that you face a particular problem. It makes you feel inclined not to try or to bother. 'If that can go wrong,' you argue, 'so can everything else.' Not so. You do have power you can use. Now is the time to exploit it Nothing in this world ever needs to change because everything is perfect, just the way it is. That's correct, isn't it? What? You disagree? How can you be sure that your current impulse to take action is a wise one? The answer, of course, is that you can't. You can only hazard a guess and hope for the best. But if you don't trust what you feel in your heart of hearts, what can you trust? You now feel a strong urge to alter an arrangement. Play your hunch, even if you cannot back-up your idea with a logical argument.When you close your eyes, you can see anything you want to see. Why then, when you open them, can't you be anything you want to be? What keeps you in your place? What stifles your creativity? What limits your power? What suppresses your potential? Over the course of the next few days, you may gain a much greater insight into the reason for a difficulty. You should also become enthused with an inspiring new vision. Don't assume that your exciting hope is something that can never come to pass. It can... and it will













Wednesday, 26 June 2013

LOVE WE NEED AND WANT TO KEEP GOING,LOVE IS ASSURANCE,PROTECTION AND EVERYONE WOULD LIKE TO BE  FONDLED.
They say that history never repeats itself. But the same old dramas often keep playing out year after year, even decade after decade. Some factors change and evolve; others just take on slightly different shapes. For as long as people refuse to learn from the errors of the past, they will keep on making the same mistakes, over and over.
Great leaders have to be right, even when they might be wrong! Nobody wants to accept the instructions of a ditherer. But nor can anyone hope to be right about everything all the time. So part of a leader's job involves trying to make it look as if they have been right, even when the evidence begins to suggest otherwise. That's partly why the world is full of so many people in high office holding tight to entrenched positions.
What's the difference between a big risk and a small risk? It is never the amount that you may stand to gain. It is the amount that you may stand to lose. What's the difference between a wild gamble and a calculated risk? It is whether or not you have really managed to see what you stand to consider a matter very carefully. How well do you know all the circumstances that surround a particular situation? How well do you know yourself? Trust only what you are sure of.'There are more questions than answers and the more I find out, the less I know.'  At one time or another, this statement will apply to just about everything - and everyone! It probably explains why so many of us prefer not to ask any more questions than we have to. We rarely end up confirming a fact; we just come up with more that has the potential to confuse us.
 See how events in your life tend to follow a particular pattern. You can take constructive steps to change this, 'Is it attainable?' Almost certainly, it is, at least in part. But you need to decide whether it is appropriate. Do you really still want what you once wanted? Or were you just pursuing something that you thought you probably ought to want? Your time and your energy are both precious. So too, is the opportunity life presents you. At least, this raises some considerably challenging issues about difficult facts that must be faced. But then, a whole new era of opportunity will begin. 
It is as if you can now see very clearly the nature of a particular problem in your life; a problem for which, up till now, you have had no real strategy to solve.  somewhere in your world now, someone is telling you that you can't have this AND that, you can only have this OR that, this shift in power makes and/or a perfectly acceptable option all very exciting but a little daunting. It implies a dramatic situation that you have become almost inextricably involved with. Yet it also speaks of your desire to find freedom from this. For that to happen, you are going to need some help. 
How very encouraging to see that there is a person in your world, who truly has enough power and influence to assist you.Things can't be the way that they used to be. The clock won't turn backwards and the videotape of history won't rewind. Remember that? And there's a case in point. Once, they cost a fortune. Now, they can't give them away. Nor is it just technology that keeps moving on. Ideas, attitudes and expectations alter with the passing of time, too, a chapter in the story of your life so far, is now coming to a close. 
They say, 'If it ain't broke, don't fix it.' There's no convenient catchy phrase to sum up the policy that you need to pursue when you are not entirely sure whether something is broken or not. What if it works sometimes but not at other times? What if it is erratic and unreliable? Then you have to ask yourself whether you are better off with something that at least sometimes works, than with something that has become inadvertently damaged beyond repair.You are under no obligation whatsoever to accept the seemingly inevitable,to justify a sense of passivity and acquiescence, which can surely be only disempowering.
Happiness is when, what you think, what you say and what you do, are in harmony.' So said the late, great, Mohandas Gandhi, known to his friends and admirers as Mahatma. Your quest for happiness, taking you one step further in the best possible direction.  You have spent too long  feeling torn. Too many divided loyalties, too many attempts to reconcile duty with desire.
'You must not lose faith in humanity. Humanity is an ocean; if two drops of the ocean are dirty, the ocean does not become dirty.' So said Mahatma Gandhi. Back in his day, the seas were not quite as polluted as they have since become in some parts of the world. But even now, the vast majority of those oceans remain unaffected. Coming events will restore whatever faith you may have lately lost.When people say, 'Oh, I don't mind how things turn out. I'm easy-going and relaxed.' This isn't always true. It may be better heard as a statement of aspiration. They may be saying, 'I wish I could develop a more laissez-faire attitude. Or it may be that they feel socially awkward about expressing deep desire and determination, so they try to cover it up. 
Success involves refining the ability to distinguish between what someone is saying and what they really mean. Be sensitive.If your car keeps getting stuck in traffic jams, is that a reason to take it back to the store and trade it in for a new model? If someone keeps alerting you to the existence of very real issues and difficulties to which you might otherwise be oblivious, are you better off keeping the company of a person whose conversation is more cheerful? It is necessary now for you to be circumspect about the attribution of blame. 
Something very constructive can now be done about a problem - but only if you identify the true cause. People who are trying to sell us things are not our friends. If they act friendly it is because the more they gain our trust, the easier it will be for us to buy, or do, or agree to whatever they are proposing. So we should remember to be slightly wary of overly affable people and that if we have a need to persuade anyone of anything, we should make a special effort to be charming. Fulfilling the promise of a better future, now involves seizing a real opportunity and seeing through a somewhat staged presentation
Many people report more emotionally intense experiences. Some are swept away by stronger passions or more profound anxieties; others say they feel a greater affinity for and empathy with the ones they love most.
Does it have to be one thing or the other? Are the options mutually exclusive? Why are the rules so cut and dried? Have they really been made that way? Or is that how someone is choosing to interpret them? Don't you get a choice in how they are interpreted? Maybe you are making things harder than they need to be. How did it go? 'You just call out my name and you know, wherever I am, I'll come running...' I'm quoting it for you now, because you've got a friend. Not necessarily a new friend, nor even a friend without flaws and failings. But then, we've all got those, haven't we? Yet we also know, that in this woefully fickle world, loyalty is a rare and wonderful thing.
 You are about to see proof that you have support in an area of life where you had been feeling isolated.How easy it is to become tense and apprehensive. There is really no great skill or effort involved. Just consider a situation and then question it a little. As soon as you introduce an element of doubt, it begins to unravel like a sweater that has been pulled by a hanging thread. It doesn't matter how carefully and cleverly key ideas have been knitted together, they will start to unravel just the same. So what's the solution? Avoid challenging anything, ever?
 You have no option now, other than to embrace challenge and change and really must be careful not to raise unrealistic expectations, and this definitely will bring a change of emphasis to a key area of your world. You will rightly perceive this as an improvement. You will feel that things are getting better - which they will be. But you won't solve all your problems at a stroke. There will still be much work to do and several less-than-ideal situations to endure, for a while at least. Even so, the longer we live, the less we can be sure of. 
Just think about technology. We are surrounded by devices and machines that experts used to insist could never exist. Consider, for example, what your mobile phone is capable of! Social protocols have also changed. What was once okay is no longer okay. And vice versa. (Who would have thought that one day, world leaders would all take their ties off when they met each other?) Now, what are you currently seeing as impossible? Are you really right about this? When we put two and two together, what do we get? You learned how to do that sum at a very early age and the answer hasn't changed in the meantime. The same techniques work in the same way. 
You might waste a lot of time if, whenever a simple mathematical formula needed to be followed, you went right back to the drawing board and started all over again. So why, somewhere in your world now, is there a set of factors that somehow don't add up? Perhaps you've got more than you think of one thing and less of another.Never apologise, never explain.' This was once the rule of leaders and politicians. To say sorry was to show weakness. To articulate a set of detailed reasons for making a choice was to invite someone else to come up with an equally detailed set of counter-arguments. As all this might undermine the position of authority, it was generally felt better to rely on bluff and bluster. You can't be quite so dogmatic when dealing with the people around you now, but you can still ask for their trust if you feel sure of something.
Though they say that life has few certainties, there are many processes where the outcome is so reliable, that we can treat them as predictable. Without this, we would find it very hard to function. We make a lot of assumptions that turn out to be right. I am stressing this point before I issue a little warning, about 'automatic expectations'. In most areas of your world, it is absolutely appropriate for you to have these. But where you have now got a sneaking suspicion that something is wrong, don't ignore it. 

I have been talking to you about the various ways in which you may be able to have your cake and eat it. Or at least, get more of what you want and less of what you don't want. Influences influence us  but to what extent is up to our mind who tend to rule over body, you'll be astonished by what can be revealed about yourself. If you want to get on in the world, it help as long as you've got true friends, it doesn't much matter how successful or influential you are. If they are people who consistently take more from you than they give back, that's another matter. But that's not the kind of friendship that is now beginning to play such an important role in the story of your life. Someone who is capable of saying and doing very constructive things is now available to help you.
So if somewhere in your life, something appears to have reached a standstill, it is not so surprising. But this phase will be followed by a time of renewal and revival. Fear not. Everything is moving may be at snail's pace.Your life is not about to change beyond all recognition. You have not woken up this morning to discover that you are an entirely different person, leading an entirely different life. And nor will that prove to be the case tomorrow, the day after or indeed, in any of the days - But when you come to look back, after several months, you will soon see how many things have changed significantly. And all those changes will be changes for the better.
 We all like to think that we know how the world works. We are proud of what we have learned - especially if we have had to learn it the hard way. We are passionate about our beliefs - especially if they involve ideas that we once resisted. Yet certainty and accuracy are not always as closely connected to each other as we might wish. An old assumption now sorely needs to be reviewed. Better now, to keep an open mind and be judged as inconsistent than to uphold a fixed position and be proven wrong, that affability on your part would help you attain some of your own goals. You could. There's no reason in the world why any of us can't be both approachable and guarded at the same time. 
Whenever there's a choice between a sweet way and a sharp way to do something, the sweet way is best.
If there weren't so many criminals, we wouldn't need so many police officers. If there was less illness, we might require fewer doctors. Once you start thinking along these lines, it becomes tempting to ask who has the greatest vested interest in the ongoing existence of a problem - and wonder why they might be causing it in order to keep themselves in business. Such things may happen from time to time, but as a general rule - and certainly a rule that you can safely apply now - there is no point in looking for such connections
When people lose things. They look again and again, in the place where they felt sure that it should have been, as if to convince themselves that it is missing. Even when they begin to widen the search, they keep returning to that initial place - the one where they looked in the first instance. Then they start hunting in ever-more-unlikely locations. Only after a while do they sit down and search their memory instead of their rooms. To find what you seek now requires brain power, not brawn.
 'If patience is worth anything, it must endure to the end of time. And a living faith will last in the midst of the blackest storm.' Another quote today from Mahatma Gandhi. Whilst most examples of wisdom closely match our instinctive idea about what must surely represent common sense, here's a controversial notion. Eternal patience? What are we supposed to do then when our patience wears thin with someone or something? Only you can now decide how much patience someone or something may deserve. 
The truth,' they say, 'will set us free.' Indeed it will, but how many of us truly want to be quite so liberated? We quite like some of our obligations and limitations. They give us a sense of rhythm and routine in a world that might otherwise prove to be too loose and chaotic. Some of us might even prefer to live a lie that they can relate to than to dwell in a state of intimidating integrity. Yet there is nothing to fear, from knowing the real state of someone's mind - or what the score in a sensitive situation actually is.
There is a somewhat chaotic situation, over which control must be taken. Who has the authority to issue commands and accept responsibility for these? It is no use looking elsewhere. You are the best person for the job and to some extent at least, the only person. So if you've got doubts, you had better get over them. Even if your policy is flawed, it remains preferable to allowing things to remain just as they are. Act as if you believe in yourself, and you will yet find some really good reasons to justify that faith.
Sometimes, we say, 'There's no telling what might happen if I were to do this or accept that, or set a particular process in motion.' But that's really just a figure of speech. Very few consequences and repercussions are ever entirely unpredictable.
 What we mean when we say, 'there's no way of knowing' is really: 'I could think it all carefully through but it would be quite hard work for me.' It may be more productive now, to venture bravely into unfamiliar territory than to cling to the false security of familiarity. 

Sunday, 23 June 2013


Check your enthusiasm and move on with calmness and constancy
It often seems as if the more success we attain in one area of life, the less inspiring our outlook becomes in another, you yearn to redress some agonising imbalance, but you're reluctant to let go of a hard-won advantage. Unfortunately, you can't have it both ways, or, at least, you can't yet. Soon, it may well be a different story. For now, though, you must compromise in one department for the sake of progress in another. Trust that you're on safe enough ground to take a small risk.Nourish entire world with mercy and opportunities for something. Be short and specific and upto point which save time and energy. 
Aspire to inspire before you expire!
Be kind and think of others first or god will stop thinking of you!
Some of us wear our hearts on our sleeve. Others keep them in a lead-lined box buried beneath a palm tree on a remote island to which the only map was lost long ago,that is what they would like the world to believe. 
You are making some interesting discoveries about what certain people truly feel, and why they feel it. You are also starting to see your own deepest, most secret emotional agenda from a different perspective. There's now a real opportunity to strengthen a close connection.
 Every time you think you know what's going on, you have to stop and think again. You're being told something that cannot be entirely true... but the person who is telling you this entirely believes their own story. This is not so much a deliberate deception as an enthusiastic iteration of an ill-informed opinion!  It is important to trust your own understanding of a matter, no matter how much you seem to be under pressure just to go along with what everyone else seems to feel must be right.
 Why go the extra mile? What do you want to put in all that effort for? Will it really make a difference? Or will you just tell yourself that it has been worthwhile because otherwise you will feel that you wasted far too much time? Why not just play it cool? Because you are you. If a thing is worth doing, it's worth doing to the best of your ability. In your emotional life now, you absolutely have to honour your highest standards and your deepest priorities, no matter how inconvenient that may currently seem to be

.Are you pushing the right buttons? Are you asking the right questions? We all have a terrible tendency to do what we think others expect of us. We don't think for ourselves. We try to take refuge from fears and worries by 'fitting in' with the folk around us. At such times, our idiosyncrasies begin to seem like liabilities. They become reasons why we could be singled out and criticised. But this solstice week, you must not apologise for who you are and what you are. Your individuality is a strength not weakness.
 We can't conclude, just because one situation is now improving in your life, that your problems are over. We can't expect everything to be easy. We can't be sure that your love life will improve significantly. We can't state, that your finances are set to see a dramatic upturn. We can't guarantee that you will be full of brilliant ideas. We can't just assume that people will soon find you extraordinarily alluring and appealing. Yet, for various important reasons, we really can't rule any of it out either, we are beginning to enter a different cosmic climate. 
You can look around and see the evidence of a new era dawning with your own eyes. If it's not automatically visible, probe a little. Try the handles of doors that were previously locked. Make an effort to do what you had given up all hope of ever being able to do. You're not guaranteed success at every turn, but you are entitled to expect more success than you have had of late. It's all a question of pushing aside doubt and negativity.
Our enemies are often the people who were once our friends. And even our closest companions can be perceived as our potential enemies-in-waiting. Certainly, if we treat them badly enough, they will be in the best position to retaliate. But the cosmic message for you now is best summed up by a quote from Oscar Wilde: 'Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much.' Keep someone on side now... and you'll get more benefit from the relationship than if you allow a conflict to escalate.
 We may - or may not - be able to make dreams come true just by believing that, somehow, they can. One thing is for sure, though, if we don't believe, we make it far less likely. This full Moon invites you to take a fresh look at an old idea. You have been doubtful and dubious for quite some while about whether a notion is truly feasible. Do you want it to be possible? Or are you just looking for an excuse? An easy reason to drop the whole thing? First, be clear. Then, you will be successful.
A new adventure is about to begin. You have not, of course, finished your old adventure - but, then, that's nothing new. You are naturally versatile and you enjoy a challenge. So there should be nothing too daunting about the drama that is now starting to unfold. Other, perhaps, than that it is not one of your own choosing. You have one idea about what ought to be happening. Someone else, it seems, has another. Give this individual the benefit of the doubt. They have the potential to help, not hinder, you.
Why must life be difficult? Why can't we all just sail smoothly through the ocean of experience? You may as well ask why we have to have rain or why it can't be always day, never night? Without a down, how would we ever appreciate the meaning of an up? Without a challenge, why would we ever bother to bring about a change? Without doubt, how would we ever appreciate certainty? You have been through a lot lately but  you will start to see how valuable your recent experiences have been.
 No ifs, no buts, no maybes. Things have to be decided. They need to be sorted out. You are tired of all the to-ing and fro-ing. You don't want any more discussion, debate or dithering - and you certainly don't want any more arguments. You now know where you stand and you can't keep pulling and pushing in the hope that someone else will come and stand in the same place as you. That's fine; you don't need to do this. If you now honour what feels right in your heart, the right result will ensue. There's no need to worry.:
 Why does it sometimes feel as if our guardian angel has deserted us? Because guardian angels are frequently required to attend emergency conferences. They have to negotiate with other angels and thrash out complicated deals involving priority of need or conflict of interest. They return, clutching their dispensation proudly in their ethereal hand, only to discover that, in the meantime, we have made new choices for which they must compensate. Be still and have faith this week. Much that seems wrong will come right.
 Some people insure their antiques. Others go to great lengths to protect their savings. They think that these transient, physical things represent their security. They fear that their world might fall to pieces without their prized possessions. But aren't memories, commitments and long-standing affiliations even more precious? For the sake of your emotional wellbeing now, you need to establish and maintain a particular priority. Deep within, you know what this is. Don't kid yourself that it doesn't matter
'All the world's a stage,' or so, at least, Shakespeare insisted. He, though, was a professional writer. If he needed a script, he could just make one up. We less eloquent mortals don't always know what we're supposed to say or do when we are dealing with life's challenging factors. You may feel that you ought to be delivering some carefully-rehearsed soliloquy in order to convey a crucial, sensitive message properly. Not so. You just need to say something sincere and simple. You will yet be heard!
They say that you become like the company you keep. To some extent, it's true. We either have to accept and take on board the values of those around us or risk a sense of alienation. This is fine provided those values are healthy for us to have. You may now be under some subtle social pressure to compromise. You feel you should alter your needs if you want to feel accepted. Instead of bowing to this, seek the support of someone who is more naturally in sympathy with your most precious aims
You face a situation now that some people wouldn't want anything to do with. You have seen others struggle and fail to sort out a similar mess. They have given up. Are you getting ready to do the same? There seem to be many good reasons why you may as well. There is, though, one overriding reason not to. For that reason and that reason alone, you have to do what you can to protect the one bit of bedlam that is not yet completely crazy. In the process you may yet manage to actually achieve the near-impossible.
.In theory, your outlook is excellent. Why then, might this week turn out to be less than ideal? Because you've got, 'the kind of problem you should consider yourself lucky to have' or 'the sort of trouble that brings success!' Sometimes we need a little cosmic turbulence to keep us productively occupied. When we've got a challenge, we've got an opportunity. Don't think too long or hard about something that seems 'wrong' or you may end up trying too hard to fix something that isn't really broken in the first place.
 Some plants and creatures reproduce asexually. Various forms of yeast, fungus and bacteria can recreate themselves in this way - as can some starfish, aphids, bees, lizards and 'bonnethead' sharks. How convenient that must be. What lives of supreme independence they must lead. As for the rest of us... Well, it seems we need each other for something, at least. There are certain processes other than the aforementioned, that you cannot complete alone. Life now, therefore, requires a degree of co-operation. Somewhere in the high mountains, there's a wisdom factory. Its tall chimney bellows out smoke that gets picked up by the clouds and carried across the whole of Earth.
 If you happen to be standing in the right place, you can revel in the rain of insight and understanding. But not, of course, if you are wearing the overcoat of opinion or holding aloft the umbrella of cynicism. Before there can be true certainty, there must first be sincere uncertainty. In your emotional life soon, a shower of wisdom is about to fall. For some while now, you have been nurturing a very specific desire. On occasions you have come within a hair's breath of fulfilling this, but either some awkward factor has arisen or you've been obliged to turn to some other more pressing matter. Now, once more, it looks as if it may just prove possible to reach your much-longed-for goal. Will there be yet another twist in the tale? Yes, but his time, it will be one you can happily accept. For though the path ahead is not exactly straight, it leads to the right destination.


On the day of the Solstice, the Sun reaches a turning point as it begins to change direction in its apparent journey along the horizon. It stands still for three days as if to say, 'Now, where have I got to? Can I get any further? And is it time to turn back along the path I previously took?' To some extent, that's what we all do, too. Although the echo of that turning point has more to do with the process of emotional renewal and revival than intellectual backtracking. At this point you need to move on in the nicest possible way, for the best possible reasons. It  is stepping aside from a minor dispute, so that you can eventually win a major victory.Get ready for intense but exhilarating experiences. Get ready for intense but exhilarating experiences.
Once in a while, the cook must stop and taste the broth. Dipping a clean spoon into the pan, raise it to their lips and season according to what their taste buds tell them. They may decide that all is cooked to perfection and take the meal off the stove immediately. But more often than not, it gets another stir and a few more moments to finish. There is a sense in which- now brings the great stew of your life to a checking point. The adjustments you make this will prove much more to your taste.
You know how, sometimes, when you are trying to solve a puzzle or dredge up a memory, you can think for ages without any form of enlightenment taking place. Eventually, you stop struggling and striving. You drop the whole matter and then you find, after your mind has gone elsewhere for a while, that it is easy to see whatever previously eluded you. The natural pause now creates in a key area of your life may have just this kind of an impact. Don't deny yourself a little distraction.
The story of the need to comply and co-operate with a series of requests and requirements that are now being made of you. It is, to some extent, a story of sacrifice; of giving ground and accepting a small shift in a balance of power. Yet it is also the story of how you become the beneficiary of a significant, positive, process that has the potential to improve your future vastly. That can't happen unless you let go of some outmoded ideas about how things need to happen in your life. there is particular need to look at some of your expectations.
 Life has lately caused you to lower these in the light of various frustrations and disappoint. 'No, don't do that. Be inspired. There is good news.' Indeed it is - stress that it won't solve all your problems at a single stroke. But there are improvements.We draw lines and define limits. We say, 'These are the things I don't like - or the things I don't do.' By establishing and defending such boundaries, we protect ourselves from the forces of flux that might otherwise cause chaos. Yet as part of the very same process, we can inadvertently put obstacles in our own paths to progress. 
The better would be for you to stop and review some of the barriers that you have previously put in place. It may be wiser to replace some of these with bridges which have been assuring you that nobody can read your mind unless you actually want them to be able to do this - and, even then, only a select few have such an ability. But-  really- there is anything wrong with your private thoughts. There is no shame in what you are now inclined to think, nor need you fear embarrassment. But as you are becoming keenly aware of the need for discretion in a key situation, but it is making exceptionally slow progress, crawling where once it might have been zooming. Can you identify with that?
 But soon it becomes clear that the only way to go forward with a key plan is to begin by going backwards. Much the same can be said about an area in your life where it lately seems as if progress has ground to a halt. You are just halting to draw breath before sallying forth to success again to see what's in store. 
Luck is nothing but the meeting point of alertness of mind and opportunity passed by. Average mind discuss events and small minds discuss people. Patience is not just sitting idle but waiting for success. And we give much time to godly thoughts-we give less time to mind to wonder here and there. Attracting divine magnetism one can develop spiritual power to help others by your simple wish as god's protection will flow through you!

Have you made a wish? Have you been waiting a very long time for it to come true? Are you beginning to suspect that the fairy who granted it to you was merely an apparition or that the shooting star on the sight of which you made your request was actually just a UFO? Only in fairytales are wishes fulfilled almost instantly. In real life, they can take much longer to be honoured. But that doesn't render them invalid. You may now need to hang on tight to your hope but to set yourself a longer time frame of expectation. Release and relief means let go and move on are basic mantras to lead a peaceful lie. The process of learning is tough but once we acquired special skills,may it be technical field or mental journey- we can get through.
'To forgive is divine.' We cannot argue with this old saying. Yet an error sounds like a small thing, a minor mistake, a slip of the tongue or the pen. Why would anyone ever resist the idea of forgiving such a thing? But there is just as strong a case for extending forgiveness, even to those whose transgressions are far, far, greater. Still, today, a process of letting go could be so healthy.If ever we fall ill, we first come to know about it when we encounter the symptoms. Usually, too, these are what drive us to seek help. But if we are too quick to apply whatever is most likely to relieve the pain, we may create a false sense of security and then fail to address the underlying cause.
 A problem in life, could well indicate the need for a fundamental review. Don't be in too much of a rush to find a superficial fix. Look more deeply.None of us like to have 'difficult conversations'. To avoid these, we may go to many lengths, including the use of social niceties. We may strive to change the subject whenever an awkward issue is raised or avoid it being raised in the first place by keeping out of someone else's way. Through such tactics, the discussion of vital matters can be successfully delayed for a surprisingly long time. But doesn't it make far more sense just to say what needs saying. That's the right answer.  
None of us like to have 'difficult conversations'. To avoid these, we may go to many lengths, including the use of social niceties. We may strive to change the subject whenever an awkward issue is raised or avoid it being raised in the first place by keeping out of someone else's way. Through such tactics, the discussion of vital matters can be successfully delayed for a surprisingly long time. But doesn't it make far more sense just to say what needs saying. That's the right answer.
When children fall out with each other and adults attempt to intervene, it is rarely long before one of the infants points towards the other and pipes up with the words, 'They started it!' At which point the accused party replies equally vehemently, 'No, I didn't. They did.' It is not just individual adults who are equally capable of sustaining a grudge in this way; nations do it too. The same syndrome lies at the heart of every war. But in your own life at least now, you have the power to bring true peace and reconciliation.
What lies beneath the tip of the iceberg? What hides behind the short sound-bite or the glib explanation? What circumstances and explanations must really be taken into account if a truly wise choice is to be made? We jump to conclusions so readily, we allow prejudices to colour our ideas and expectations. Yet, so many of the factors that we end up having to think about really deserve much deeper consideration. You now need to think a matter through more carefully and you will benefit from doing this .
Are you trying, in your usual stoic way, to play down a fear? Are you finding, despite your best effort that this is not so easy? Is this, in turn, adding to a background sense of anxiety? Do you figure that, 'If I'm still worried, despite telling myself that I don't need to be worried, then perhaps I really do have something to worry about.' Whilst such a concern is understandable, it doesn't automatically follow that you have a problem. 
Try just a little harder to rise above whatever is pulling you down and you will yet succeed.Sceptics and cynics frequently cast doubt on the validity of telepathy. It's all a trick, they say. But then, they say much the same about astrology. So, let us waste no more time on the argument. I just want to tell you what I have learned from spending time with some exceptional psychics. They do exist. They are for real. But even the most gifted of them cannot read people's thoughts when those people do not want their thoughts read. What you now know, nobody else is going to know, unless you tell them.
If you think of yourself as strong, it becomes much easier to display strength. And if you think of yourself as weak? Well, you take my point. We have to be careful about the kind of self-image that we develop. While you won't necessarily become a great artist just by seeing yourself as such, you will certainly have more fun at the easel than if you envisage yourself to be without talent. In what way might a negative and unjustified inner-criticism be holding you back? That can be overcome now.
Over the past couple of days in your forecast, I have been preparing you for some changes in celestial influence that is still a little way ahead. I question whether I'm saying too much, too soon. Does it help a hungry person to know that, though there may be no food today, there should be some next week? It may not satisfy their appetite but it is surely better than leaving them to think that sustenance will never arrive. Let us be clear. You don't just have something to look forward to; you have a lot to look forward to.Imagine, for the sake of analogy, that someone, somewhere in your world, suffers from fear of heights. They don't like climbing even the smallest ladders, up or down. But what if this individual finds themselves stuck on a roof? What if the only way to escape is by ladder (which is safely and securely in place). To get away from somewhere they don't want to be, they must do something they don't want to do. In your life now, it is not really a case of choosing the lesser of two evils. One of the choices is not really a bad thing.

Friday, 21 June 2013

DEEP PAINS AND YOU!


I had been extremely lucky to escape and became more aware of our mortality, and how necessary it is to know to how to appreciate life while there is yet time. I have had a very full life. I know there is in this world Great Happiness and Good Fortune but I also experienced misfortune, misery, pain and difficulties. I have felt the same kind of sufferings. And when I found that my life had been saved, I began to think about all those things. I reconsidered my own life and that of others. 
Know what you really deserve,your turn of mind and what type of life and know you deserve much better than the life you lead presently. So take actions strong enough to get you rid of all problems which still spoil your life.
The real life accidents could have been tragic unless you had not taken precautions. If I were not here,I would  not be able to help others. I felt at the same time so near and yet so far.I felt deeply that I had lived a similar life. I have felt the difficulties that you know. I have lived with your anguish and despair, facing the injustice of life. I have felt the same desire as you, to be able to offer things and especially things of which you really have need. All these reflections stopped me from falling asleep; they told me that you also would like to be able to help others and give pleasure to those whom you love,your life should change radically. You are going to make the transition from a fairly ordinary life to one full of Great Joy, Wealth and Happiness!
Imagine how your life will be when you will know in advance what beneficial events are coming to you. You will never commit the same mistakes that you did in the past, and you will know how to put all the 'odds' on your side,actual problems weight on your shoulders. I know that these problems drain you and choke you and I know too that they block you from taking the energetic decisions and positive initiatives to change your life at last, you don't have the positive resources required to fight back this avalanche of difficulties in which you are struggling and which ruins your life.
You often have this strange impression that something or someone is continually trying to put a spoke in your wheels. I also know that nobody until today was able or willing to give you the help that you needed, because nobody has ever tried to understand you and your problems, and therefore no one could find the true solutions to solve them.you still have secretly hidden inside you, all the huge possibilities required to face these problems and these difficulties. Despite that, you are still feeling a "violent block" that impede you from acting to obtain what you are entitled to expect from life.This profound deception has marked all your life, like a wound that's still bleeding and is wide open. It hurts you feel bad even today, especially since you don't consciously relate to this painful past. And so there is a great bitterness that lays in you and invades your spirit.
This ancient pain, not healed, is like a deadly poison much more serious than one can imagine, a deadly poison that paralyzes you and annihilates your faculties against difficulties. This is one of the fundamental reasons of your lack of positive personal potential and this is probably the real cause of all your current problems.There is no reason why it should be otherwise,they may bring you everything you want most in the world, and everything you've been badly missing .I had a distinct sense of emergency, as if a superior inner force commanded me to work. And the result was well beyond my boldest expectations, and now I can confidently say: life will indeed change, as surely as the Earth is round... it's going to be that very windfall of joy.What to do in the face of this or that situation, and how to make sure you have luck on your side and end up A WINNER !
And yet you sometimes have some great moments of enthusiasm, but they are followed by hideous moments of profound discouragement. This is the sign your past is trying to play tricks on you. We ourselves have to eradicate these negative influences from your life if we want your life to change, and for that you need help in an energetic and efficient way.You are at this very moment at a decisive turn in your life in the area of luck as well as in the area of feelings,What is odd about you, is that there is in fact two things opposed to one another that drive you, one of them is constantly winning on the other and these two tendencies are conflicting, and that is blocking you from truly enjoying your life. 
Sometimes you seem to resign, you seem to let things happen in such a way that you can't handle the slightest difficulty. On the other hand, on other occasions you feel great, you have flashes of lucidity and you are truly aware of the magnificent life you could live if you knew how to seize all these occasions that are coming to you, all these chances that are passing nearby and your grief and kindness are abused too easily. Collect beneficial waves to help you turn over the page of life so that destiny eventually grants you a real chance.. to WIN.


 We may - or may not - be able to make dreams come true just by believing that, somehow, they can. One thing is for sure, though, if we don't believe, we make it far less likely. You have been doubtful and dubious for quite some while about whether a notion is truly feasible. Do you want it to be possible? Or are you just looking for an excuse? An easy reason to drop the whole thing? First, be clear. Then, you will be successful,take a fresh look at an old idea.
Why must life be difficult? Why can't we all just sail smoothly through the ocean of experience? You may as well ask why we have to have rain or why it can't be always day, never night? Without a down, how would we ever appreciate the meaning of an up? Without a challenge, why would we ever bother to bring about a change? Without doubt, how would we ever appreciate certainty? You have been through a lot lately, but now you will start to see how valuable your recent experiences have been.
Are you pushing the right buttons? Are you asking the right questions? We all have a terrible tendency to do what we think others expect of us. We don't think for ourselves. We try to take refuge from fears and worries by 'fitting in' with the folk around us. At such times, our idiosyncrasies begin to seem like liabilities. They become reasons why we could be singled out and criticised. But you must not apologise for who you are and what you are. Your individuality is a strength not weakness.
 We are beginning to enter a different cosmic climate. You can look around and see the evidence of a new era dawning with your own eyes. If it's not automatically visible, probe a little. Try the handles of doors that were previously locked. Make an effort to do what you had given up all hope of ever being able to do. You're not guaranteed success at every turn, but you are entitled to expect more success than you have had of late. It's all a question of pushing aside doubt and negativity.
 Every time you think you know what's going on, you have to stop and think again. You're being told something that cannot be entirely true... but the person who is telling you this entirely believes their own story. This is not so much a deliberate deception as an enthusiastic iteration of an ill-informed opinion! It is important to trust your own understanding of a matter, no matter how much you seem to be under pressure just to go along with what everyone else seems to feel must be right.It often seems as if the more success we attain in one area of life, the less inspiring our outlook becomes in another. You yearn to redress some agonising imbalance, but you're reluctant to let go of a hard-won advantage. Unfortunately, you can't have it both ways, or, at least, you can't yet. Soon, it may well be a different story. For now, though, you must compromise in one department for the sake of progress in another. Trust that you're on safe enough ground to take a small risk.
 A 'No' uttered from the deepest conviction is better than a 'Yes' merely uttered to please, or worse, to avoid trouble." Mahatma Gandhi didn't just say a lot of good things; he did a lot of good things. He lived according to his deepest belief... that no matter how wrong or oppressive the force a person is fighting, it is always possible to create positive change without violence. You've got to follow principles that make sense to you.
 Be fair and be sincere and you'll yet be successful whatever will be, will be, the future's not ours to see.... It's no wonder so many people take a passive approach to life if they hum such melodies and allow such words to echo through their minds. The future IS yours to see. And it is yours to change, too, if you don't like what you see! So, first look... and then look at what constructive steps you can take to alter what you don't like the look of.In theory, your outlook is excellent. Why then, might this turn out to be less than ideal? Because you've got, 'the kind of problem you should consider yourself lucky to have' or 'the sort of trouble that brings success!'
 Sometimes we need a little cosmic turbulence to keep us productively occupied. When we've got a challenge, we've got an opportunity. Don't think too long or hard about something that seems 'wrong' or you may end up trying too hard to fix something that isn't really broken in the first place. .We put a man on the Moon in 1969. Or at least, most people believe we did. Others passionately believe that we didn't. But one thing that remains totally unbelievable about the Apollo mission is the fact that it didn't put a woman on the surface of that satellite. What an outrageous omission! In a similar way, you need not to get so caught up in one debate that you can't see the wider implications of a much bigger matter - one that has the potential to greatly change your life for the better. 
 'All the world's a stage,' or so, at least, Shakespeare insisted. He, though, was a professional writer. If he needed a script, he could just make one up. We less eloquent mortals don't always know what we're supposed to say or do when we are dealing with life's challenging factors. You may feel that you ought to be delivering some carefully-rehearsed soliloquy in order to convey a crucial, sensitive message properly. Not so. You just need to say something sincere and simple.
Why does it sometimes feel as if our guardian angel has deserted us? Because guardian angels are frequently required to attend emergency conferences. They have to negotiate with other angels and thrash out complicated deals involving priority of need or conflict of interest. They return, clutching their dispensation proudly in their ethereal hand, only to discover that, in the meantime, we have made new choices for which they must compensate. Be still and have faith. Much that seems wrong will come right.