Confusion always build up stress level,stress is essence of life as stress is steam which pushes the engine of life. But excess of everything bad, unproductive and nonconstructive can be avoided by meditation introspection. Life always present you two type of forces one is constructive and other is nonconstructive. Opt for constructive.Learn to be active,open all channels of communications to express self in transitive way. Never promise when you are too happy as you yourself do not know whether you would be able to keep it or not in future. It can damage your reputation.Likewise words NEVER and ALWAYS do not convey what is in your mind so use words wisely.
Criticism may be constructive and nonconstructive,constructive when it is for your improvement,listen what other person is saying,whether he is criticizing to tear down your confidence and self-esteem. But never react aggressively as it show you in poor light.Only when your are perfect or unapproachable,criticism will absent. Using criticism to address your weak points is good as you can improve where you never knew the chances of improvement are.
What seems to be real today and now, forgotten as a fading dream after sometime. Then why we involve ourselves in it? This is the main cause of stress and strain despite having material or spiritual knowledge.
Detachment will solve your stress related problems.Check your negative feelings,be more receptive and flexible to avoid stress and confusions.Never wait for right time as time is always perfect for work. Do your work at time to avoid stress.Earn the right,we have to earn the right-first deserve then desire.Voice your views and opinions time to time. But remember target should not be the person who has criticized you.
Self confidence and self esteem are essential qualities apart from academic qualifications and experiences.Be honest with you,never let the fear deter you,in this way you can control your nervousness and other weaknesses.
You need not to invest a good part of your life to earn a right,research work will do the same. So research real life factors,know all or discover. Gather all information whether it is in house or official text.Selling,we are selling self by way of our work or ideas and information's,so best way should be chosen.Make sure what is in other's mind, you should know all pros and cons. Organize self in best way,click at right time to excel. Weight your words before expressing them to others. Weight age of words will give you more power. Negative role make you bold and positive so never treat negative circumstances and people with bad taste. Welcome as these are real life tests which are testing you and can make you a role model.
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