Friday, 2 November 2012

IF YOU ARE ONE WHO HAS TO DO ALL BY YOURSELF,YOU ARE INVITING
 STRESS AS TO IT IS  NOT POSSIBLE FOR ANYONE TO DO ALL ALONE. WE
 HAVE TO DEPEND UPON OTHERS AND IT IS DIFFICULT TO GETTING THINGS
 DONE BY OTHERS.EVERY ONE IS UNIQUE AND HAS SPECIAL POWERS-
 SUMMON STRENGTH TO BREAK OUT OF THE HOLD,THEN NO TRAP CAN
 DETER YOUR  MIND. PROVIDED YOUR DREAMS HAVE SOME WEIGHTAGE
 OR YOU CAN BECOME BITTER BY THINKING WORTHLESS.

SPECIALLY WOMEN HAVE TO MAKE THEIR DAY WITH CONFIDENCE AND
 COURAGE .ENJOYING THEIR LIBERTIES,SHEDDING THOUGHTS OF
 WORTHLESSNESS THEY ARE NOT SAFE IN THEIR OWN HOUSE AS THEIR
 MOTHER RESENTED TO HAVE THEM,THEIR FATHER ARE IMPATIENT TO OFF
 THEIR BURDEN,THOSE WOMEN HAVE  NO SAY THEIR OWN HOME. THEY ARE REMINDED THAT THAT IS NOT THEIR HOUSE. THOUGH IT IS THEIR SHELTER,FREQUENTLY  CHANGED INTO TORTURE CHAMBER WHERE THEIR CRIES GO UNHEARD. HER LIFE REMAINS WHERE HER GRANDMOTHER'S LIFE ONCE WAS,SHE IS TERRIFIED OF MALE GAZE. NEARLY EVERY ASPECT OF LIFE IS SHROUDED IN SHAME OF ONE KIND OR THE OTHER. SHE IS SHAMEFUL FOR EATING EXTRA MOUTHFUL,SHE'S LABELLED AS GREEDY,EVEN WHEN SHE IS NOT FEELING WELL SHE HIDES IT OUT OF FEAR. THIS SOUND STRANGE BUT IT HAPPENED. IN VILLAGES WHERE WOMAN IS STILL LIVING AS A THIRD GRADE PRISONER.

AFTER MARRIAGE YOU DON'T DESIRE ME ANY MORE IS MOST NON-VERBAL COMMUNICATION,WHEREAS IN INDIAN MARRIAGES WIFE IS STILL CONSIDERED AS INFERIOR TO HER HUSBAND,SHE HAS TO OBEY HIM NOT OUT OF LOVE BUT BECAUSE SHE IS WIFE-- A MAID FOR LIFELONG. MAIDS MAY HAVE AUTHORITY TO HAVE LEAVE FOR FEW DAYS BUT WIFE IS NOT SUPPOSED TO HAVE ANY. A MAID AVAILABLE FOR 24X7. IF ANY OF PARTNER PUTTING OFF SATISFACTION TODAY IN THE EXPECTATION OF MUCH GREATER LATER ON,BOTH HAVE EARNED THE RIGHTS TO HAVE SATISFACTION . MARRIAGE IS A CONTRACT, A PARTNERSHIP TO  LIVE TOGETHER TO SHARE AND ENJOY WHATEVER TIME OFFER.

DON'T JUDGE YOUR PARTNER FROM WHERE YOU START THE RELATIONSHIP,WOMEN CHANGED WITH TIME,IT'S UNREALISTIC TO EXPECT ANY HUMAN BEINGS PERSONALITY TO REMAIN FROZEN FOR TWO OR THREE DECADES,TIME WILL TELL THE WHOLE STORY.IRON OUT ANY CONFLICT OR PROBLEM AT EARLY STAGE OR SUFFER BROKEN MARRIAGE. BOTH PARTNER IN MARRIAGE WORK HARD, THERE IS NO DOUBT.BUT NO ONE IN SUPERIOR OR INFERIOR TO THE OTHER. THERE IS  A CONSTANT NEED FOR MUTUAL PLANNING AND CONSULTATION,OR CAUGHT UP IN THE DEMANDS OF LIFE THAT THEY ARE FORGOTTEN HOW TO RELATE TO EACH OTHER.

YOU CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE BY REFUSING TO BELIEVE YOUR OWN LIES.IF YOU TAKE YOUR FAITH AWAY FROM LIES, THEY LOSE THEIR POWER OVER YOU. YOU WILL BE FREE OF FEAR,DRAMA AND CONFLICT. SOCIETY  IS A  STORY-TELLER, THEY TAUGHT  US HOW TO A MAN OR WOMAN BEHAVE,THEY GAVE US NAME,ROLES AND HOW TO PLAY THEM, tHEY FILLED US WITH KNOWLEDGE AND  OF COURSE WE BELIEVE THEM AND FROM THEM WE EARNED  HOW TO CREATE OUR OWN STORY. THIS VOICE LIVED IN OUR BRAIN,IT IS NOT REAL FILLED STUFFED AND CONDITIONED OUR MIND. THE VOICE OF SPIRIT TRIES TO COME OUT BUT MIND NOT LET IT. MIND BECOME STRONGER AND LOUDER.

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