A bicycle must have two wheels. A pair of scissors must have two blades. A partnership must involve two people. All is well when the two are able to work as one, respecting each other's existence as they co-operate and communicate. But when there's friction or dysfunction, the simplest things turn tricky.Usually, first, a realisation dawns on us slowly. An idea falls into place. An understanding takes shape. Next, we reach a point where we grasp the real implication of this discovery. We get excited. The realisation becomes a revelation! We see that this is no small issue we have made sense of. We've reached a life-changing moment. Soon after this, transformation begins. We now see we are free to change so much.