We don't say what we ought to say. We say what we think we ought to say. Then we wonder why nobody understands us. And, because others are equally coy, we end up knowing little about the folk we are supposed to be closest to. Even when we really try to bare our souls, we are not used to being honest. We don't know how to find the right words. And we often suspect that our statements are not likely to be welcomed. Why rock all those boats? Because in your emotional life, you really need to!Nesso, Italy