Friday 21 December 2012

FEELING LOW?


As long as we are in  this body everything is real. This is relative reality of all things that are happening. So while you are living do as you have wanted to do and not as you should do, feeling of something doing forcibly is not good in the long run.  But hold on please, think for a moment when you are doing what you like or what you have wanted to do- Who is going to pay you for  things you love to do?
You might have worked hard for your life and career and you talked about who you are or at least think who you are? You might have good status and earning good money-money and status would  tell who you are! But having all does not mean that you are happy.  We are much happier when we feel settled.
Life is a lesson learnt from life’s situations. Be adaptable and feel fresh not bore, boredom indicates your dissatisfaction that you are not happy. Now question is why we feel stressed? When we start comparing self with others-our lifestyle and others lifestyle. Other people may be in habit of posing,they  make you sure that their life is better than you and you start comparing,comparision is healthy when you learn from and unhealthy when you succumbed to their superiority complex. Why you feel less than someone else?Its more bad when you feel guilty.Feeling of shame or guilt can leave you in despair / tears.
Some  find it boring without comparing themselves with others.Never compare with others if you are in habit of feeling bad. YOU ARE GREAT. Think positive. Everybody has limits and own style of thoughts,everybody will do as per one’s thinking and capacity. Whenever you feel bad dig a pitch and fill it with your bad feeling and dump there all. Organized life,happy life- some seems to be happier than others but actually not,they are telling lies. We all are actors in real life so how you can judge others and others can judge you?What are the indicators of judging happiness?
Everybody wanted to lead a happy life,and they are happy to some extent like us. Every life is different and same to some extent.similarity is life’s situations are similar but how we handle is different things at different time. Relationships,marriage,having children and rearing them is similarity in every body’s lives but approaches are different so anyone can seem to be happy because he/she is doing better than you and me. So change your life for better is always good.

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