Monday 10 December 2012

INFLUENCE

The person who can brighten up our lives can be beloved, friends or smile of little one. All have capacity to lessen our sorrows,friends or loved one can smell something is wrong in the bottom when ever we try to hide something. Influence and influencing cause some bitterness in relationships as influence  may be of superiority complex or getting the things done in their own way which the other do not want.
Influencing is more common between children and parents or between friends when they force the other to go out for a party or movie  Children lie to their parents to please the friends or they do not want any label from friends. Parents force children to do things according to their way and not the way children want.
Why we try to influence someone,to show our concern or to show our superiority though parents are learned and experienced one - they do not want their children to suffer so they do so. Some times it becomes suffocating. Avoid such things in case it is pressurizing your children. Mind is combination of  intellect,ego and mind. Evolution is getting state of glory,to reach this state one may take many births. soul strength is as such ,as light is covered with a glass and glass is dirty so it loses its shines but actually light is shining as ever bright but due to dirty glass its light is dim- likewise soul never loses its strength but mind covered with glass of ego and other impurities  lighten its strength it seemed- but it is not a reality.One has to realize it,then realization happens.
When children grow,they also try to influence their parents as they had seen earlier,which is embarrassing for parents,as they never expect from their little ones to whom they had showered their love and affection with genuine concern as they are their own part of body. But children have hot blood and mind. They have seen it happening everywhere so they justified themselves-painful and hurting for parents.Have patience is the only way to console self.

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