If you want a good and satisfying relationship with people around you, sincerity and honesty are important. Do not be silent, even with those who are different from you. Be available and let others approach you with joy and spontaneity, try not to be aggressive and you'll regain your well-being.
At this point you must simply refine some particulars. You'll finally be able to make that jump in quality you were after; expect more rewarding duties.