Kürdistan

When we want something badly, we have to wonder, 'Why is my sense of need so strong?' We may also ask, 'Is this healthy?' or 'do I have something to learn here?' But, of course, we rarely stop and contemplate any such issues. We simply think about how we can get what we want, and make sure that we keep on getting it! Unless, that is,  hoping to make a difference and achieve practical, tangible change. Don't let the desire for the perfect outcome outweigh the chance of real, achievable progress. 

 आप यदि सांसारिक विषय किनारे रखकर आध्यात्मिकता की तरफ मुड़ेंगे तो गूढ़ रहस्यमय विद्याओं की तरफ विशेष आकर्षण रहेगा। गहरे चिंतन-मनन आपको अलौकिक अनुभूति कराएंगे। वाणी पर संयम रखने से बहुत-सी गलतफहमियों से बच सकेंगे जीवन में सुख-शांति का अनुभव करेंगे। कार्य में सफलता और यश की प्राप्ति होगी। घर में शांति और आनंद का वातावरण आपके मन को प्रसन्न रखेगा। स्वास्थ्य बना रहेगा।तन-मन से खुश और प्रफुल्लित रहेंगे। 

What's the difference between a small disagreement and a big dispute? Often, it's social nicety. When there's diplomacy, ruffled feathers can be smoothed. But when there's a sense of aggression, defensiveness or exclusion, it's much more likely that a small problem will turn into a large one.

Scruples! Morals! Ethics! Don't we just love these? What's more enjoyable than passing a happy hour or ten contemplating the ins and outs of some dilemma that revolves around right and wrong? And, if it's a question to which there'll never be a satisfactory answer, even better.

STEPS

BEAUTY OF NATURE

SLOVENIA

BEAUTY OF NATURE

We're constantly told that life is a competition. We have little to do with what really matters in life - our happiness, and that of those we love.We deserve better than what we have. 

Scotland

DETOX YOUR BODY WITH FOOD

HELPING HANDS

Greece

Italy

LIFE TO BODY

WHAT IF...................

What if the worst happens? What if it all falls apart? What if your enemies conspire with your adversaries who, in turn, strike up an unholy alliance with your own most self-defeating traits and tendencies? If that's the case all you have to do is get a grip on your own fear and pessimism and their entire plan wiLL implode!What has happened has happened. There can be no going back, no changing the past, no magical eradication of yesterday. Even if you had a time machine, capable of causing the hours and minutes to race rapidly anti-clockwise, why would you use it? Would it not be far wiser to put that device to its other implied purpose? Why not rush ahead, instead, to some point in the future from which you could feel safe to look back from a calmer, clearer vantage point?

विचारों की विशालता और वाणी का जादू से  आप आत्मविश्वास तथा त्वरित निर्णय लेकर कार्य में आगे बढ़ सकेंगे, समाज में मान- प्रतिष्ठा में वृद्धि होगी। आपके हर एक कार्य निर्विघ्न रूप से पूरे होंगे। आनंद में वृद्धि होगी  भरपूर आत्मविश्वास और दृढ़ मनोबल  के साथ सुख- शांति और आनंद का वातावरण बने रहने से आप अपने दैनिक कार्यों को आत्मविश्वासपूर्वक अच्छी तरह कर सकेंगे,विविध क्षेत्र में लाभ मिलने से आप शारीरिक और मानसिक रूप से स्वस्थ और प्रफुल्लित रहेंगे।नई विचारधारा अमल में लाएं। 

If you are not worried, you will be acting with confidence. Your confidence will be so strong that it will envelop you in a kind of shoe that automatically protects you. it's nothing to worry about.When you are in a hole, what should you do? Stop digging! Give up. Let go. Like a fly caught in a spider's web, the more you struggle the more you are going to become stuck. Don't exhaust what precious little room for manoeuvre you may have. Conserve your strength until the spider is almost upon you. Just as it is about to make its move, make yours. And somehow, miraculously, you will make good your mistake. No matter how scary the situation, you have just enough power now to make everything. it occurs to you that you 'just can't win'. Perhaps that's so. But you 'just can't lose' either. The trick, if you seek stability and comfort, is to stop worrying about winning. Don't think of a key relationship in terms of success or failure. Think in terms of learning and discovery. Respect the mystery. Rather than trying to solve it, try to salute it. Embrace the inconsistency. Celebrate the paradox. Nurture your sense of humour. All will be well. The pathway to the future, by contrast, always looks more like a wobbly tightrope hanging over a windy canyon. But destiny speaks with a strong, clear and inspiring voice. 

 Some folk seem to enjoy being perpetually dissatisfied. They are just not happy unless something is making them feel unhappy! They enjoy complaining and, if you attempt to solve a problem for them, they are likely to resent your interference. Then they will have to start searching, all over again, for something else to feel fed up about. 

Nobody ever wins when the blame game is played. But you could yet be a real winner. We should remember that we all have more than one side.
 We are multi-faceted. We do not always really know what side of ourselves we are on at any given time.
 How then, can we be entirely sure about the difference between a friend and an enemy?

To live is to nurture a garden. So the Romans used to say. In the garden of life there should always be flowers to appreciate and plants to admire. There should also, always, be weeds. We must have something to pit ourselves against, something to be irritated by, something to keep under control and something to beat. We may need to think again about what we'd like to banish from the garden of our emotional life. It has its place as long as we keep on top of it and it does not get on top of us.

WE ARE NOT ALONE

There's more to life than being a grown-up. Being grown up is far better than being a child. Though we may feel under pressure to act a certain way and to conform, no one is going to send us to bed without any supper if we don't! As adults, we can choose whether to follow the rules. Don't let the fear of punishment for past hold you back from new possibilities. It's easy to feel as if we're alone, swimming against a tide of difficulty, lost on an ocean of indifference. Like an emerging turtle hatchling, we know we must press on to the sea, but our fins feel clumsy in the sand, and all we see are the potential pitfalls and predators ahead. 
We're not alone on this journey. And, life has always been this way. If you take the time to look around, you'll find others, willing to give you a helping hand. They can highlight the changes you need to make to be truly in your element.Sometimes, one subtle gesture can be worth a hundred emphatic, dramatic, declarations. We've just got to know when to raise your eyebrow - and who to look at when you're doing it! 
How hard will it be for you to exert your own power over a situation? That largely depends on how daunted we feel by someone else's apparent power.Experience teaches us that we don't have to seek change. It always finds its way to us. Stability is the experience we have to strive for. The moment we relinquish our desire to lead a predictable life, chaos comes flooding in like a river through a crack in the wall of a dam. You may feel as if you're struggling against a deluge - but, actually, you're safe to relax without fearing that everything will alter forever.
It's one thing to have a sense of responsibility, another to feel swamped by a burden of duty. Yet, if we take commitments seriously, it can be hard for us to remain on the right side of that dividing line, care deeply about someone or something. This, in its own way, is wonderful and right. But let the feeling take you too far and lose the ability to see where vital lines need to be drawn. If a small problem is becoming a big problem, try looking from another angle. 
ALL IS ABOUT OUR FOCUS.CHANGE IN FOCUS WILL CHANGE ALL!

JAANE KYA LIKHA THA

JAANE KYA LIKHA THA US ISHQ KE KALME MEIN ..

KI AB USKI CHOKHAT MERA MADINA HO GAYA...!

ISHQ SE JUDAH RAB KAHAN HAI BATA ZARA.....

SADAH ISHQ KI HUI TOH RAB KA SAJDA HO GAYA...!

ISS ISHQ KI LAKEER SABKE HAATH MEIN KHICHI HAI...
TABI TOH KHUSHI SE BARA YE GAM SABKO GWARA HO GAYA...!
PHOOLO KA DAAMAN KAANTO SE BARA HAI ...
PHIR BE KYUN BAWRA AWARA HO GAYA....?
HASTA HUA DEKH YUN APNE DILBAR KO..
DIL KYUN AISE PARWAANA HO GAYA...?
KHUDA KA NOOR HAI CHALAK RAHA ISS ISHQ MEIN..
SARE AAM AB TOH YEH AFSAANA HO GAYA...!
AB BE JO PARDA KAREGA ISHQ SE AE BANDE..
TOH SAMAJLE KI TU KHUDA SE BEGAANA HO GAYA..!
WO AAYA MUJSE KEHNE KI ISHQ KAR AUR ISHQ KAR...
US PARVAR DEGAR KI MARZI AB MERE JEENE KA BAHANA HO GAYA............:)))))) 

KI HUM TOH AAJ KHUDA KE NOOR MEIN SOYE HAI

Be strong and you'll naturally strengthen anything that seems weak! 'Make up your mind to be happy, Life is a merry-go-round. If you miss out NOW, Don't let it fret your mind, Love will come round in the end..And it's not just loving that can come back into our lives even once it has seemingly slipped into the distant past forever. Hope too, can return. And success. And power. What you wish you hadn't left behind. Walk forward bravely
The challenges and issues arising in life are all to do with lines, and where they need to be drawn. And with other definitions, boundaries and points of distinction. You don't need much assistance in recognising what these may be or where they may apply. It's more that you may need some support in acting on your understanding. Invite others to encourage you to trust your own judgement.