Friday 29 June 2012

APPRECIATION VS.DEPREICIATION

Appreciation vs.Depreciation. Depreciation is happening second by second automatically. May it be things or relations. Appreciation is the most valuable gem, which we found here on earth for free but never bother to take care of it. Actually we get valuable things for free from god. As for example air is free, our circulatory system works automatically, we breath, we digest food-whatever our body is doing, doing  automatically and free of cost. Whenever there is interruption, we have to be hospitalized and spend lots of money to keep body workable. Appreciate God for all the free gifts. Appreciate relations for smooth life.

   Lincoln once began a letter saying: "Everybody likes a compliment." William James said: "The deepest principle in human nature is the craving to be appreciated." He didn't speak, mind you, of the "wish" or the "desire" or the "longing" to be appreciated. He said the "craving" to be appreciated. Imagine what miracle you and I can achieve by giving people honest appreciation who go insane and find in insanity, a feeling of importance that they were unable to achieve in the world of reality. Sincere appreciation is a wonder drug, it can cure thousands of people seeking it, demanding it in various way.

 Their heart is bleeding for love and words of appreciation which we are never ready to give. Rudeness is the cancer that devours love. Everyone knows this, yet it is notorious that we are more polite to strangers than we are to our own relatives. And it's only the members of our own family, those who are nearest and dearest to us, that we dare insult for their trivial faults."Praise is like sunlight to the warm human spirit; we cannot flower and grow without it. And yet, while most of us are too ready to apply  to others the cold wind of criticism, we are somehow reluctant to give our fellow the warm sunshine of praise." So appreciate good people, good things and all goodness around us, to make this planet worth living.

Everyone is starving far few words of appreciation,appreciation is a sort of glue which binds together  all.Appreciation
A few months ago, Josh found out that a competitor was opening a new office in the same city as his organization. He went over the implications of this, but even after he'd covered all of the bases, he still felt that he was missing something important.
SQUEEZE AS MUCH AS YOU CAN FROM OPPORTUNITY----------------------


Now, he has discovered that this competitor is headhunting his best managers. And he doesn't have a plan in place to do anything about it.Does this sound familiar? Sometimes we're given a piece of information that seems straightforward, only to find out later that more was going on than we thought. As a result, we're then unprepared to deal with the consequences. One way to deal with these situations is by using Appreciation. This is a simple but powerful technique for extracting the maximum amount of information possible from a simple fact or statement.--------------ILLUSTRATION  from  Mind Tool.com.




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