While attempting to reconcile two things that do not go well together? Do not waste energies on such things We say strange things when we speak to each other. We plough through piles of platitudes and we don't so much use language to express our true emotions as to disguise them! Yet hidden amongst many bland, seemingly meaningless remarks in daily conversation are nuggets of crucial information. Those messages have to be decoded. What is a person really trying to say to you? How should you interpret the signs and signals that you seem to be receiving? All will become inspiringly clear try to decode.