Did the world really begin with a big bang? And if so, what was there before it? And what did that begin with? I know those sound like irrelevant questions at a time when you seek vital insight into an ongoing cause for concern in your emotional life. But it is only by taking your head away from the detail of a conflict that you will gain the perspective you need to help solve a practical problem. You are too close to a situation that you would be much better advised to stand further back from.