In almost any sport, it is always a good idea to know which team you are playing for, whose side you are on, and in which direction play is supposed to head. Having established that, you can safely attend to other little matters such as how points are scored and what constitutes defeat or victory. A decision-making process, entered into without such information, will not necessarily prove stressful but its outcome will! The discovery you are now making in your emotional life, will ultimately bring you much wisdom and power.Iceland