SHORT MEMORY BE A BLESSING

People used to say that goldfish have a three-second memory? This, they argued, was why it was OK to keep them in tiny bowls. Supposedly, they just weren't smart enough to know that they were being deprived. Who knows how true this is or ever was? But wouldn't such a short memory be a blessing, not a curse? If only you and I had such a thing, every moment of our lives could then be spent only in the here and now. Much of what you currently feel obliged to remember in detail is now surprisingly safe to forget.

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Life is unsafe, insecure - you can die any moment - so why be worried about it? All that you need is to live as totally as possible while you are living."Say yes to life. And if one is aware, then one will be surprised that many times we unnecessarily say no... And we harm nobody except ourselves by saying that. No is fear-oriented; yes is love."Mind is just a procession of thoughts passing in front of you on the screen of the brain. You are an observer. But you start getting identified with beautiful things — those are bribes. And once you get caught in the beautiful things you are also caught in the ugly things, because mind cannot exist without duality.Highlight your own beauty and admire that of others.

              

When some one assure you that You'll be able to recuperate and find excellent solutions to a situation which has recently made you anxious. When you are momentarily apart from one another, you'll realize just how important your partner is to you.Consider beauty and look for it both in yourself and in others. Even though beauty is simply an ornament, its contemplation can bring joy,

Yes my focus is on other side of world. Ready for a new journey life after death.

But how can one be positive when one is putting the best from his/her side, Let me try again to be positive when there is no response to my treatment!

If something needs to leave your life it's time to let it go. If something needs to enter, let it in. If you're not sure where you stand with regard to a certain situation, just keep standing where you are until it all becomes obvious. Be aware, though, that some people enjoy creating a sense of tension.
We all have our own ways to handle challenging situations. A common defence mechanism is to pin-point the negatives and then find a solution to combat them. Then, hopefully, everyone leaves without getting hurt. 

When we're nice to people, people are nice to us in return. When we trust people, they sense it and are keen to justify our trust. When we're loving and kind, we get back what we give out. Usually. 99.99 percent of the human race are wonderful folk. If we spend all our time defending ourselves against the other 0.01 percent, we rob ourselves of an attractive happy nature that can only work to oour benefit.

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All you have to do is suppress your strongly-held opinion and bite your lip each time a certain person says something. The trouble is, you don't much like giving way - especially when you know for a fact that you are right! You can now choose to spend some time engaging in an intense argument or you can decide to be big and humour whoever now sees life so differently. It is surely better to give a little ground than to fight and even win a battle that you later regret .
If you knew what your problem was, you wouldn't have a problem. You would simply have a situation to cope with. But you are not sure how the land lies. Each time you look over your shoulder, you compromise your ability to navigate a clear path. Yet if you don't cover your back, you may get an unwanted surprise. Get some perspective. Head for the top of a hill. Look all around. Then you'll know exactly what to aim for and to guard against. Exceptional opportunities will arise in life.

 In our emotional life whenever a discussion needs to be held. We may feel reluctant to enter a conversation because we already  know how it will all turn out. But actually we don't know that We're making an assumption and working on the basis of information received so far. Crucial facts can be unearthed. Insights that alter everything await discovery,  or details will give the insights we need to make our life better and our future brighter. 
How can we going to find all these things out? There simply is no other way. Just trust and allow some talking to take place It's easy to reach an agreement. 

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MOKA DIYA MUKER NE DIL DIMAG EK HUA NEKI BHI SATH HUI
MEHNAT OUR MUSHAKAT SE MANJILE TAY HOTI GAYI OUR HUM SUKHRU HUE.

Let us imagine, for the sake of argument, that life is a kitchen, the surfaces of which are smooth, clear and clean. Behind those fitted cupboards, though, are little inaccessible areas of dust and grime. Normally, out of sight is out of mind. In emotional life,it is as if you are changing a cooker. Or installing a fridge. In the process, you are revealing something superficially unattractive. Try to see what's happening in the right sense of perspective. It is for the best and will contribute to a long-term improvement.
There is a lot that it is not yet wise to do, there's plenty to keep you busy while you wait. Instead of seeing these other tasks and involvements as a poor substitute for your desired activity, find some way to throw yourself into them wholeheartedly. This will help you to clear the decks so that, when your opportunity arrives, you are ready to take it. It will also help you resist the temptation to strike before the iron is properly hot. 
Form plans, develop ideas, clarify your intentions. Keep yourself busy and relax. If you feel fed up, celebrate. If you seem to be at a dead end, raise a cheer. If nothing makes sense any more.
These symptoms are an indication that magical change is coming. You need to feel that you have gone about as far as you can go in one direction. Without such a mood, how can you summon the determination required to take your next big leap of faith? Nothing can change for the better till you stop settling for second best.  

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Try to understand what your role and position are in the family or social group. In fact, you will get the best results by being faithful to your current role, contributing to the well-being of others.

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Walk away from an argument. Walk towards a situation in which you are likely to feel comfortable. You don't have to prove anything. You don't need to rise to a particular person's bait. There can be a smooth, successful transaction - an easy exchange. If something looks difficult, it almost certainly represents a challenge that you really don't have to rise to. cosmos is some timely advice. Stop caring. Stop investing so much hope, faith and determination into a temporary situation. You are clouding your judgement by allowing a sense of need to overwhelm you.
We think we're so clever these days. Yet in the old days, they knew many things that we have forgotten. What we hear, we hear privately in our brains. What we feel, we feel deep in our hearts. It does not, therefore, much matter where we go or what we do - as long as we can adjust our psychological responses. 'cutting off your nose to spite your face' is not a good practice.

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 We don't like the people who tell us what we don't want to hear.We are all creatures of habit. We like to do what we have always done. We prefer the well-trodden pathways, not least because, if we stick to these, we are not required to consult maps and ask for directions. People who know what they are talking about rarely feel an overwhelming urge to explain themselves.  People who are secretly far less certain of their facts, may attempt to replace a lack of understanding with a veritable eruption of description and persuasion.

There need be no shortage of hope and enthusiasm

The actual 'doers' have been too busy 'doing'. Some people love rules and regulations. They get a perverse, unhealthy thrill out of following them, issuing them and peering over the shoulders of others to see whether or not they are abiding by the law.Avoid such people.

Sometimes you must wait and occupy yourself only with small things. You will be able to be victorious but you must not display this too much: use this period to analyze everything and be prepared to the best of your ability. You will gain strength and success. The art of knowing is knowing what to ignore!

External circumstances regularly change quickly. You must consider however that the most intimate essence of man is unchanged over time. Give what you have to grow. Try to help others as well as you can. Aned be thankful what you have!

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