Don't insist on doing things your way if the situation is too complex. Take on new interests. It is not easy always when your loved one is expecting something from you. You will have to conciliate your duties and dedicate some time to your relationship.When depressed don't forget that after a dark period, the light always returns and a new phase of renewal start. Then every moment is right  to regenerate self as there is no resistance to your way- success is sure then.