It is not worth trying to harmonize things, people or situations which are simply not compatible. Remember everyone has different personalities and it's important you maintain yours. You can find a harmonious way, even if this in in the distant future.

PLANNING LIES WITH MEN;SUCCESS LIES WITH HEAVEN.------------CONFUCIUS.

A PERSON  IS A SUCCESS IF HE GETS UP IN THE MORNING AND GETS TO BED AT NIGHT AND IN BETWEEN DOES WHAT HE WANTS TO DO SO.---BOB DYLAN.