Monday 1 July 2013

YOU AND WE

They say there is no place like home. But not every home is a happy home. For some, home is where the heart is and for others it is where the heartache is. Now I must be clear. I have no prediction for you about tension, stress, separation or sorrow. I just need to let you know that where there have been elements of these less-than-desirable experiences in the not-so-distant past, there will soon be a real possibility for healing. Becoming more comfortable in this area of your life will make a big difference to your outlook.
Do you get the feeling that the cosmos is trying to tell you something about the way your emotional life is developing? Perhaps it isn't. Perhaps all those odd little developments, which seem as if they're all pointing towards the same conclusion, are just coincidences. Perhaps those signs, signals and suggestions are intended for someone else... or are to be interpreted as advisory comments, not emphatic orders. Perhaps. And perhaps, if you keep ignoring the more subtle hints, the universe will have to start shouting!
Nothing in this world ever needs to change because everything is perfect, just the way it is. That's correct, isn't it? What? You disagree? How can you be sure that your current impulse to take action is a wise one? The answer, of course, is that you can't. You can only hazard a guess and hope for the best. But if you don't trust what you feel in your heart of hearts, what can you trust? You now feel a strong urge to alter an arrangement. Play your hunch, even if you cannot back-up your idea with a logical argument.
In an attempt to avoid stress, some people accidentally create a lot of tension. They adopt, for example, policies which they believe will help them lead an easier life. Then they put themselves under a great deal of pressure to adhere to these, somewhat defeating the object of the exercise. Trouble has a way of getting to us all, no matter how we try to keep it at bay, you need to find a way to stop seeing it as something you can outwit, escape or deflect. See it as your friend and then disarm it with a smile. You are starting to feel as if you are trapped in  now. Every time you make up your mind about which direction you need to go in, you begin to realise that you can't. But actually, if you just decide that you can, you can! 
Fill in a form. Now, fill in another. Why? Well, if you really want to know, you will have to fill in another form before we can tell you. Not sure how to fill it in? You can have help. To apply for it, all you have to do is fill in a form! Bureaucracy is a wonderful thing. What's wrong with the world today? Too much spontaneity, not enough form filling in! Or perhaps not. But that's what some people seem to think. Watch, now, for the tendency to apply too much common sense to what's essentially an emotional, magical impulse.
As the emotional pressure intensifies, the potential for passion increases and the communication between you and someone else gets ever more tricky, we have to ask how you ended up in a situation like the one you now face? You don't have time to pick over all the details and there's no point in attributing blame. You are where you are and all that matters is that you move on from here. Take a moment to recall one defining incident in the chain of events that led to this point. Within that development is the key to your next step.
Planet Earth turns on its axis once a day. Then once a year, this spinning ball travels around the Sun. The Sun itself describes a very slow orbit around some distant point in our galaxy. All those wheels within wheels. No wonder it often feels to us as if we are all going round in circles. You are beginning to wonder if you will ever make any real progress with a project or plan. It has taken up much of your time and energy but how far have you really got? But, despite your fear, you are not right back where you started from.

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