Have you ever noticed that, sometimes, just when things are starting to get really good in our emotional lives, a new problem crops up or an old one rears its ugly head once more. It is almost as if our difficulties are like flies, they can smell food in preparation and this attracts them to the feast. You now need to think of your biggest obstacle or stumbling block as a pesky insect. It can buzz, it can flutter, it can even bite or sting a little, but it can do no real harm, unless you allow yourself to overreact to the irritant. When people develop a skill or a talent, we cannot help but admire them. We love to see something difficult being made to look easy. We are impressed when we see a display of prowess, yet we often fail to recognise our own abilities, even when these have been hard won. Don't forget what you are good at. Don't forget what you know and why you can be so sure of it. You don't have to be proud but you do deserve to be confident, especially in your emotional life now, as you now consider a key decision.