Is the world full of people who are doing things that they don't really want to be doing? And what do we all do about our frustration with regard to all those unwanted obligations and onerous commitments? Generally, we try to persuade ourselves that we are happy enough, that we don't really mind, that this might even be what we would have chosen had we actually been offered a real choice.
 As we grow older, our tastes tend to alter. So do our shapes. Few of us can get away with wearing quite the same outfits that we cut such a dash in all those years ago. There may be garments too, that once we rejected as being a little too formal or frumpy, yet which actually look rather good on us now we have reached a certain age. As with clothes, so with attitudes and ideas. This is a big discovery? Something that you once thought of as 'not for you' may be much more 'just for you' than you ever realised.