P factor plays an important role in our life,well everyone need it when it is all about planning but what about when we end up in weighing up pros and cons of our plans and do nothing?  All well planned matter contain risk factor so be creative and explore some unconventional ideas and suggestions or acquired tastes, which, once we acquire them, we can learn to love more than the experiences that we have always felt naturally drawn to. Just as money earned is always far more satisfying to spend than money that has come our way through chance or generosity, so we gain greater pleasure from appreciating the things (and even the people) that we have had slowly to teach ourselves to like. All this is called growth.
The people who see everything as cut and dried, clear and simple, obviously right or unquestionably wrong, are either to be envied or pitied. We can admire the  peace of mind that such a set of narrow attitudes can bestow - or feel sorry for the blinkered view that must prohibit progress in so many other ways. But the fact is, there is always another way to look at a situation. Seeking that other way is always a most rewarding activity.
A compromise, we can all learn to live with if we have to. But what about a clash or a contrast? What if one colour doesn't go with another but you have to visit an environment every day where the two hues appear side by side? Or if two people simply cannot agree on a set of principles but they are obliged to work continually in each other's company.
We can't expect a pair of shoes to last a lifetime, especially if we are going to wear them almost every day. It's not that your feet will change size or that the shoes are badly made, it is just a natural case of wear and tear. You can say much the same about a set of philosophies as we would about a pair of shoes. They may work well for us for a long time. They may feel so comfortable that we can hardly imagine life without them. But, eventually, in parts and places at least, they will wear thin. An old idea needs revisiting or replacing  does it mean that you can automatically expect that other people  will be as open with you as you might at least wish to be with them. Someone, somewhere in your world, is telling you what they think you want to hear.Whilst a little admiration and appreciation is always pleasant, you are starting to wonder quite what it is that others see when they look at you and whether you are giving the wrong impression.  
There must also be room for skill, style and experience or the game is hardly worth playing. The only real question that you now need to ask yourself, as you analyse the extent of your own potential good fortune, is this: 'Can I take what I've got and make more of it?' If you can, then it hardly matters what you've got because once you've made more of it, you can make even more of it. And if you can't? Well, you can, so don't worry. 
You can sometimes be extremely self-sacrificing. In order to prevent someone from going through an experience of discomfort, you will put yourself in a deeply uncomfortable position! You won't even always realise that this is what you are doing. Your instincts that do not discriminate between the desire to protect the ones you deeply love from those for whom you have just a mild sense of passing concern. But you matter too much to allow yourself to turn into a martyr. Whatever will be, will be whatever you will into being.
When dealing with a set of challenging circumstances, there is very little to be gained from allowing yourself to become angry about how those circumstances grew so challenging in the first place. Never mind whose fault it is or whether, really, none of the current trouble ought to be happening. It is happening and it must be dealt with. Nor is there any advantage in diverting energy into some fantasy future in which all outstanding issues have long since been resolved. Escapism won't help you escape But realism might. 
 Imagination is arguably the most powerful tool that you (or I, or any of us) have access to. You can accomplish the most wonderful things if only you are willing to let your mind wander away from the traditional track and explore ideas or options that might seem far-fetched and fanciful. There is nothing indulgent or escapist about such activity. Nor is it ever right for any of us to see ourselves as somehow lacking in this ability. You were born blessed with the capacity for great vision and creativity. All you need do now, is put it to work.