Monday 10 June 2013

MORALITY AND WE

We watch and hear whatever happen in our surroundings,may it be social or family set up. If we are doing and saying the same thing-its impact would be positive. Kindness,patience,empathy sympathy,sharing and caring plus respect to elders is what we should have in order to keep self on the right tracks of life. At early stage child is receptive of what we say and do,adapt and absorb all in unconscious mind and when he grew up does the things according to his recording in mind.
Most children learn by trail and error how to adjust in the given environment.Everybody want a feeling of belonging and adopt the convention he had learnt. Parents and teachers are role models in everybody's life. Parents are best teachers too!They play a pivotal role and elements like honesty,love and compassion instill in them. T.V. and media is playing a crucial role now a days as little one watch and act like characters of their favourite show.They are eager to show what they know.
How they will act depends on their moral decisions and choices. They learn lead by examples whether be it school or home or social gathering.Those who lived in peaceful atmosphere are normal and feel safe at home,they feel love and care showered by parents but if parents fights over little things,they feel insecure and develop a hatred for parents.
They know the way of life is wrong but they could not do anything in this regard and when they grew up they exhibit violence and use harsh words normally. They may cheat or do something to attract attention of their parents. Limit self to the boundaries you must not cross by self control and self-discipline. Only in this way one will be able to achieve all.
Globalisation which is for betterment of all of us  effecting negatively why?
Longer years of education as everyone is career conscious and late marriages,social changes  which force children to live a life different from their parents,they believe they can try anything what they want to do.They are living in hostels where discipline is at liberty.The closeness of parents and children  brings the acceptance  of morality automatically. Today there is a big failure in grooming children ethically.
There is connection between scientific and technological progress and morality as it provides us the capacity to to possess knowledge and human realities to improve our current conditions.Now there is a great confusion about moral and ethical grounds,everybody is engrossed in his worries to earn and sustain life of modern age. disturbance in families is main factor as par3nts are emotionally distant from their children,the reason whatever may be.
They are preoccupied with their own problems,in genuine problems are real but it is responsibility of parents to give proper attention to their children. Or there must be a support system which is impossible in today's nuclear families!
The only solution to all problems is patience and morality. Only morality has power to cure all ills of social curses. Pure love and compassion is outcome of patience and moral values when we do what we do with sense of responsibility and with proper way we could channelise a stream of goodness among all.

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