Tuesday 24 July 2012

COPING WITH AGGRESSION AND RUDE PEOPLE

   EVERYDAY BRINGS SURPRISES for things that show up off and on and that needs your attention and energy. when we do not cope up with new developments in our life,we become aggressive or rude. those are at the bottom do not  have social power or as much capacity to be aggressive and those who are at the top,have all the powers but do not need to use these powers,only middle category of person generally be aggressive.  aggression need to some extent social support,power or influence. Domestic violence is due to aggressive behavior.Too much aggression is shown in films.It has bad  influence on watcher as what we see ,we copy that unintentionally.

You can't escape rude people. children are good observer,they observe all the matter around them and when they grew up they behave in the same way as they have seen in their childhood. elders taunts breeds aggression,stress,or low self esteem.It need a lot of patience and tolerance to handle rude people.You have to the point story to tell ,to the rude people or  invite problem further.Nobody fears the consequences of authority. Everybody is struggling hard to achieve impossible.Very often children feel unworthy so they cut off from home and parents and mix with unknown crowd to get relief.Only when they need they turn to home or parents to get attention. nobody is ready to accept what is going on? It is reflection of society where we live in.
Learn to deal with rude people,you can disarm them with your confident smile and courage to face their rudeness easily,do not rude back. spirituality helps a lot to deal with such odd situations. God will answer from sky,solve all our problems.Actually when we attached to bigger power,no small interruptions will disturb us.Bring GOD in every action,every decision you make ,every task you accomplish.Say god I am doing all for you.This is a type of offering pray to god,certainly you will get answer of your all question unasked.

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