Women is quiet able to take care of herself.And all the women suffer from suppressed revolt against the inhibitions forced upon them by men and our artificial culture. This is men's world,women have broken many of their old chains,but still they are under some unformidable network of man made taboos.They have longing for freedom in their heart.They can do miracles by their commonsense and tackle any complicated situation .They know how to organized things properly and effectively. Feminine sharpness of wit and clear thinking and ability to bear any pain easily make their work get translated into success. They do believe in hard work but never happy with anything forced upon them.Women are forced by men ,men feel that temple going somehow keeps women in order and they are assured of their piousness and seek help against their sins.
Women who enter upon religious life are almost having some motive apart from piousness,girls may driven into by economic security or by the hope of heaven,or failed marriage or anything similar to it.Very few are real saints.Otherwise it is only a social habit,or excuse for elderly ladies for relaxation and gossips.These women in their daily lives,are surrounded by a formidable network of daily routine jobs.,their normal desire for ease and freedom,they get by being religious.You may see such examples everywhere.Young women visits temples to get husband of their choice,or job or anything like that ,from God so women get relieved by worshiping . Now they have liberty to go any religious place,performing any ritual.Then they can brush their shoulders with the crowd,may speak on any topic of their choice and stretch their spiritual legs.In deep their heart they want variety, excitement and both are possible on the pretext of visiting various temples of the lord.It offers a means of refreshment,of self expression of personal display of boasting. The attraction in their salvation is always most purely social,a aesthetic lure,they lift themselves above the barren routine of everyday life and sentimentality to seek pleasures in spirituality. In fact spirituality offers a means of escape,convenient an d inviting from that sordid routine of thoughts,occupation which women tend to revolt against. Every one can see this practice everywhere.
Man is always looking for someone to boast to, and woman always looking for a shoulder to put her head on.She is born with half convinced that she is really weak and helpless and later on she pretends to be so. When in trouble she seeks his help and he always lend his hand to hold her.She can cry hysterically before any saint to have his blessings and godly help through saint.
Religion is highly favorable for women.If they accept renunciation it is only an effort to flout their substance under cover of their appearance. Their gentleness is visible only in security,the moment they find something dangerous for themselves,or for their husband or their children-or anyone who is under her protection, nothing would stop them to go to any extent, as they are clearheaded and resourceful.In fighting she bite they have dental reach and apply biting in fighting.Be it home or any religious place. she will fight to have her share first in any field of life.
Women in old times have to suffer a lot,they prefer marriage to sufferings.If by chance they lost their husband,they would prefer to go to be NUN or join any charity institution. They had to work hard.They have no respect without husband.Now to some extent situation has changed.Now she is equal position holder in family due to her education and job.Women a century ago face actual starvation in case of her husband died or a failing marriage.
In marriage sexual relationship,companion,communion and love is invested.Without love marriage is a source of gratification of desires only,results in conflicts,fears of insecurity and pains. Women starved for child and when deprived of child,there is no love.When we seek something in return love faded away.same is in men's case.When things become important,possessions become important,demands comes first love dies and only a cover of marriage is left.From work to worship,money,child anything materially dominate nothing left in any relationship.Craving converts into conflicts,complaints and frustration and miseries at last.This is happening in marriages these days.
Women who enter upon religious life are almost having some motive apart from piousness,girls may driven into by economic security or by the hope of heaven,or failed marriage or anything similar to it.Very few are real saints.Otherwise it is only a social habit,or excuse for elderly ladies for relaxation and gossips.These women in their daily lives,are surrounded by a formidable network of daily routine jobs.,their normal desire for ease and freedom,they get by being religious.You may see such examples everywhere.Young women visits temples to get husband of their choice,or job or anything like that ,from God so women get relieved by worshiping . Now they have liberty to go any religious place,performing any ritual.Then they can brush their shoulders with the crowd,may speak on any topic of their choice and stretch their spiritual legs.In deep their heart they want variety, excitement and both are possible on the pretext of visiting various temples of the lord.It offers a means of refreshment,of self expression of personal display of boasting. The attraction in their salvation is always most purely social,a aesthetic lure,they lift themselves above the barren routine of everyday life and sentimentality to seek pleasures in spirituality. In fact spirituality offers a means of escape,convenient an d inviting from that sordid routine of thoughts,occupation which women tend to revolt against. Every one can see this practice everywhere.
Man is always looking for someone to boast to, and woman always looking for a shoulder to put her head on.She is born with half convinced that she is really weak and helpless and later on she pretends to be so. When in trouble she seeks his help and he always lend his hand to hold her.She can cry hysterically before any saint to have his blessings and godly help through saint.
Religion is highly favorable for women.If they accept renunciation it is only an effort to flout their substance under cover of their appearance. Their gentleness is visible only in security,the moment they find something dangerous for themselves,or for their husband or their children-or anyone who is under her protection, nothing would stop them to go to any extent, as they are clearheaded and resourceful.In fighting she bite they have dental reach and apply biting in fighting.Be it home or any religious place. she will fight to have her share first in any field of life.
Women in old times have to suffer a lot,they prefer marriage to sufferings.If by chance they lost their husband,they would prefer to go to be NUN or join any charity institution. They had to work hard.They have no respect without husband.Now to some extent situation has changed.Now she is equal position holder in family due to her education and job.Women a century ago face actual starvation in case of her husband died or a failing marriage.
In marriage sexual relationship,companion,communion and love is invested.Without love marriage is a source of gratification of desires only,results in conflicts,fears of insecurity and pains. Women starved for child and when deprived of child,there is no love.When we seek something in return love faded away.same is in men's case.When things become important,possessions become important,demands comes first love dies and only a cover of marriage is left.From work to worship,money,child anything materially dominate nothing left in any relationship.Craving converts into conflicts,complaints and frustration and miseries at last.This is happening in marriages these days.
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