Friday 27 July 2012

WOMEN..............Concluded

Women is best creation of god.Men and women are equal in the eye of god,even to a mother who gave birth to them,then why our society has discriminated men and women?When a girl is born,still everybody in his/her heart  wanted a boy baby, why? It is because of every woman knows how hard her life is going to be,and she does not like her daughter to suffer in the same way.From the time unknown men and women had been busy helping god to extend the world,doing jobs,dividing according to the nature of job.Being women,she has capacity to bear hardships of nature,as she suffer lot of pain without complaint while giving birth to her child.She has to rear the child that is why she is supposed to be at home.When men force her to be at home,she get rebellious.

Its a family which teaches us about dedication,devotion and sacrifice apart from loving and caring each other.Both parents work hard for their children upbringing.Children too imbibe values of dedication,devotion and love,replicated more by example rather than teaching, these qualities are vital to the well being of family and society.We must put sincere efforts to strengthen the family relation-because we are a part of society.Every one yarns for love,appreciation and subtle and unseen things which really bring happiness in family plus society,Family values too perform miracles and renewal and leads us  towards peace and wisdom. Women being more patient and hardworking work as an binding agent to bind together family. 

It is mutual understanding,doing the job in a household by dividing the tasks according to their nature and capacity.But men from the time unknown have been exploiting women nature,they willingly allow  women to come forward and help them.And when the task is done pushed her back indoors,this habit of man upset woman. Why?  Ego problem.Now she has totally transformed her personality.She explored new avenues and successfully proved herself.A half century ago she titled man God or hero ,now zero,because she is empowered,she can earn her bread too!A century ago women had to suffer due to starvation if she lost her man,actual starvation, now it is not-she has provisions for her life..

Now situation is different.When women flatter a man as hero actually she masks his ego and it is her bank for ever.Now no need to flatter the man.And this is troubling men.Men were used to this master(head of the family) position.Women had deep in their heart, this hurt.Now she is equal position holder in the society,and no fake position-she has earned with hard work.She has better choices now,a wide range of choices in life that conditions allow.Now she declines to marry,if marry she decides to have children or not,in short she has full charge of her life in her own hands and man is a companion only,a partner with equal rights.Even men want  educated working girls as life partner.In failed marriage she is entitled to maintenance a huge share of his husband's property too !Men use their amours carefully supervised from first day of marriage and in consequences life is wholly free from scandalous,troubles and their married life would never get distraction from work,no other troubles.That is new lifestyle.

Now women have husband's devotion and respect for  them,they have earned with hard work.They  have all sorts of wisdom,broken all old belief sets which were unimportant and imposed on women.Now with equal rights at home she manage her home as well as taken care of her own interests,she visits clubs,tours alone and do everything as men do.Still such women's have less in number who are blessed ones,otherwise still there are many other struggling hard to get through hardships.Women born after  1980 or 1990 are blessed one.They were brought up as pampered children,educated,aware of their rights and ignorant of their duties. they love outdoors leisure's and pleasures which they have.Women who do not enjoy such privileges envy them and like Indian cinema or Dramas make hell for their own daughter-in laws or sister - in-laws.   all they do to get security or position at home. 

She has occupied all important positions and proved her excellence in ever area of life. They enjoy visiting clubs,listening music,writing and listening to  music,joined many  organization and reforming for women status and place in society.They do not interested in household jobs  but know everything  about cooking,cleaning,washing every job but all jobs assigned to helpers.  she does her best with means at her disposal,they have acquired expertness in other areas and intricate housekeeping left out ,bitter competition rising masculine jealously,distrust and all feeling,as now woman shakes-off duties and fighting for her rights,contrast to previous fashion of society.Now she do not want to be cuddled or caressed,protected as in earlier times,  she is a competitor in a harsh world where her position needed to be reconsidered,a general overhauling of the relations between both sexes.

Now she is at the top,as she feels and wanted to be.She has no inclination for marriage,if any she want a husband of high merits,now man do not have older common law to correct his wife with a stick,Still there are a category of women who obey their husbands,even against their will but only to manage them intelligently,not to disturb their home environment.It seemed that now man is at the mercy of woman and as helpless as woman was a century ago.Still marriage institution is going on,where sometime woman made adjustments or man made adjustment to keep going their married life,its s sort of compromise.Men lend women helping hand not out of love,but out of their interests as they want well educated wife, beautiful wife earning handsome salary,so co-operate them in all household jobs,from cooking to upbringing of children. Women who know well cooking, stitching,home arrangements well are a few.A few believes in rituals of religion,knowledge and morals,so children  do not have these. Everybody is enjoying freedom,leisure and finding pleasure,sometimes ungraceful and bad.A human being is inseparable from vanities,they genuinely and completely  want to be happy that too without any regret.

   In fact sleep is finest music in the world and dreamworld is very beautiful,better in every-bodies sight,everyone find heavenly delight in sleep.In finding delight agreeable means and exteriors and easy means are persuaded. this is in short,our life is.

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