WOMEN .......MARRIAGE...PART ONE...

Women decide the larger questions of life correctly and quickly because they have sense and not any magical inherited power.They see at a glance what most men could not see even with telescopes. women are at grips  with the essentials of a problem before men  merely waste their time on debating its externals. women are realists of the race and possessors of rare and subtle logic. though they can be deceived as they tend to see brighter side of things and matter.Men too have  special brains,but such type is very rare.

In case of marriage women is not sentimental,she will judge all pros and cons prior to any commitment,same is in case of men,both are now very honest to their needs.Now marriages are not merely accumulation of romance,just after few days real faces come to fore and constantly conflicts arise.When the other is not fitted well to his/her expectation and they can part their way within few days, no wait,no compromises just let go and move on to other relationship.Women are more cool headed than men,and more adept in employing their intellectual resources.       as men try to avoid marriage as long as possible whereas women     interest is to make a favourable marriage as soon as possible. Men are eager to get a companion and not many men get name,fame or wealth by marriage.But women get husband name and everything he possesses as being his better half by getting their best of best.He see a glamour of romance  in marriage. A man realise marriage as a bargain in which he gets the worst of it,however he get some visible gain he get a housekeeper to protect his house and its belongings,entertain his friends and relatives.But he does not want to share his personal belongings .He may yarn for a son.He has in his dreams a beautiful partner  but never eager to share anything about his bank book or secret ambitions.

He may want a partner  or company but not intimacy or intimacy  and not company.He may want a good cook  but not a partner in his business.In order to get the things he want he has to take a lot of things that he does not want. A man really does not want such type of  things in marriage but has to take up all that hurt him deep inside.First few days or years went by somehow but after that real things come face to face.Marriage gives right to fight against him,wife knew all  and soon  man he become aware of all results  that he  has achieved the intellectual disaster that is called falling in love,and he is hers to do what she want at will.    this is one sided picture now see the other side i.e. wife is at the other end,let us see her view about marriage.
T be continued..........................