Marriage is a dreamworld for most of young men and women,but soon real colors of this beautiful relationship start revealing in, silence boredom and suffocation,all conclude that the corpse is already laid down in house,of relationship. It As for man pains are usually lightened by being disagreeable in marriage,moreover man work is already bore so he never feel anything as he is used to boredom.Perhaps boredom is a natural state for most of men.Men has capacity to sit at one place and work for hours. Men can work as a writer,judge or clerk any job.But women may bore him badly,as men do like attachment like glue. She tires him by variety. she is too dynamic,he is weary when he gets home and asks only the dull peace and comforts but wife gets restless by curiosity to know each and everything.Men think that under marriage contract all duties lie upon men and all privileges given to women.Women think she is a prisoner,she can not act as per her will,only to obey what is ordered.
Men thought she is free of tensions as she has to sit at home and work within four walls. Women think apposite to it.Still husband is head of the family,he has authority over the purse strings,over the children,and even over his wife,and wife is his personal property- she is not a living thing.He has safeguarded his self respect and have support of public opinion, though laws have given some liberty to women but still laws do not change anything.All of old rights have been converted into obligations, now women have their right to property,she may devote its income to the family or spend on her shopping.Though this liberty is only for self-empowered women who are less in number.Now she has equal authority in regulating or disposing of matters related to children.There is no law compelling her to do her share of family labour,she may spend her entire time on her own.She cannot be forced to perpetuate the family name if she does not want to. she cannot be attacked with masculine weapons,e.g. fists,and forearms,when she makes an assault with feminine weapon e.g.snuffing,sabotage or invective.Now no lawful penalty can be visited upon her if she fails to keep their home clean,children in order or preparing food at times.But two wrongs can not make one right thing. if earlier women were suffering,,now both are suffering.Main sufferer are children who deprive of their right, they are alone when they are supposed to be loved by their mothers
Now husband is like a money making machine,once he submit to marriage,his wife obtains a fair share of property,including all he may acquire in future.In western countries husband can not sell his property without her consent,he can not deprive of her of his property because she is taking care of their children or doing her household jobs carelessly.Now she has all rights but no obligation.This has become a headache for many men.She may neglect her house and other jobs related to their household and children but you cannot ask her a question about what she has been doing,about her indecent dresses ,or joining any political party instead of their marriage or home.Now men has no choice but to accept all,if he want to corrects her by locks her up,or cutting off her revenues,he may get six months jail or women activists will punish him.So dare not to do so. It is now men turn to face the world,he may face instant disgrace or punishments,she may proceed against her husband to get relief.No firm bounds.
Though she must not assault him with edged tools,leave him altogether or strip off her few remaining clothes and go naked. this is not women empowerment at all, because once she was forced to do all shameful jobs by force and now she is doing all willingly. SOME SHAMEFUL ACTS ARE REALLY INTOLERABLE .for both sexes,if woman is doing wrong it is wrong and when man is doing wrong it is wrong and two wronds do not make one thing right!
Men thought she is free of tensions as she has to sit at home and work within four walls. Women think apposite to it.Still husband is head of the family,he has authority over the purse strings,over the children,and even over his wife,and wife is his personal property- she is not a living thing.He has safeguarded his self respect and have support of public opinion, though laws have given some liberty to women but still laws do not change anything.All of old rights have been converted into obligations, now women have their right to property,she may devote its income to the family or spend on her shopping.Though this liberty is only for self-empowered women who are less in number.Now she has equal authority in regulating or disposing of matters related to children.There is no law compelling her to do her share of family labour,she may spend her entire time on her own.She cannot be forced to perpetuate the family name if she does not want to. she cannot be attacked with masculine weapons,e.g. fists,and forearms,when she makes an assault with feminine weapon e.g.snuffing,sabotage or invective.Now no lawful penalty can be visited upon her if she fails to keep their home clean,children in order or preparing food at times.But two wrongs can not make one right thing. if earlier women were suffering,,now both are suffering.Main sufferer are children who deprive of their right, they are alone when they are supposed to be loved by their mothers
Now husband is like a money making machine,once he submit to marriage,his wife obtains a fair share of property,including all he may acquire in future.In western countries husband can not sell his property without her consent,he can not deprive of her of his property because she is taking care of their children or doing her household jobs carelessly.Now she has all rights but no obligation.This has become a headache for many men.She may neglect her house and other jobs related to their household and children but you cannot ask her a question about what she has been doing,about her indecent dresses ,or joining any political party instead of their marriage or home.Now men has no choice but to accept all,if he want to corrects her by locks her up,or cutting off her revenues,he may get six months jail or women activists will punish him.So dare not to do so. It is now men turn to face the world,he may face instant disgrace or punishments,she may proceed against her husband to get relief.No firm bounds.
Though she must not assault him with edged tools,leave him altogether or strip off her few remaining clothes and go naked. this is not women empowerment at all, because once she was forced to do all shameful jobs by force and now she is doing all willingly. SOME SHAMEFUL ACTS ARE REALLY INTOLERABLE .for both sexes,if woman is doing wrong it is wrong and when man is doing wrong it is wrong and two wronds do not make one thing right!
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