If something keeps on happening, we tend to assume that it will always keep on happening and that we would be wise to factor this into our plans. If it were something that we wished were not continuing to happen, first we would try to change it and, if unsuccessful, we would seek ways to feel more philosophical about it. If it is something we are glad of, then if we are wise, we make a point of remembering to feel grateful. :earn from past experiences and shed all disappointemnts which are like carrying more weight on your back.don't obey silly orders which someone is barking exceptionally demanding,you try to ease off the pressure,it will bring you progress, not punishment.intense loyality.
we instinctively shy away from second hand items.we really don't want to walk a mile in anyone else's shoes!You are free to move on if you so wish Clearly,  Just as we collectively share that physical aversion, we have difficulty with the psychological metaphor. In principle, it sounds fine but as an imagination exercise, it is almost impossible.
Your  reluctance to move from a position that you took up long ago when circumstances were very different and your own feelings were sensitive to a situation that has now changed. 
.Smile and the world smiles with you. Cry and you cry alone. That's what they say. But what happens when you don't cry and instead, you just get grouchy? Grumpiness is every bit as contagious as happiness. You just try being nice to the next person you see after someone has snarled at you! It isn't easy. But actually, it can be done. You are now in an excellent position to overturn a tradition, alter an attitude and dig yourself out of what has become an entrenched position. No matter what is coming at you, send only positivity back out.Life often seems to be full of issues that we wish we didn't have to deal with. Or annoying factors that have been seemingly sent to try us. We can't just ignore their existence but nor do we benefit when we take them too seriously. Somehow, we have to learn to be gracious. We must do whatever it is that we are obliged to do in response to those developments, without allowing steam to come out of our ears while our eyebrows knit themselves into a frown.
 The advice is easy to give  now prove just as easy to takeThe whole world is now slowly embarking on what some people have described as 'a consciousness revolution'. We are, collectively and individually, becoming more aware. We are starting to recognise the hidden consequences of our actions and our choices. We are growing less inclined to live in a state of ignorance and denial. All of that is most definitely happening to you at the moment. It isn't always an easy process to go through. It involves facing truths that you may prefer not to have to see. But it is doing you such good!There is an old saying, often employed by bargain hunters, 'If you buy cheap, you buy twice.' In other words, if you are too quick to settle for something that looks as if it will provide good value for money, without first subjecting it to some critical scrutiny, you may end up realising later, where the fatal flaw was hidden.
 The same principle applies when problem solving. The most immediately attractive solution isn't always the most reliable or desirable. Regardless of the pressure that you feel you are under, do a little more research. Is it raining? Or is the sun shining? Mostly, in most places on this planet (with the possible exception of Manchester and Melbourne), such questions can be answered definitively. Sometimes, both statements can be true at once - then we get rainbows and we are always glad of those. But it is never so easy to give an objective answer to a subjective question. Someone is now telling you what they believe to be true. They believe it so passionately, they cannot conceive the idea that it may be false. Treat them gently.
On the day that you were born the angels got together and decided to create a dream come true... Well, sum up the reason why you are so special, Someone certainly seems to think so. And, regardless of what else you may think about that person, you have to agree within this particular respect, they are right. The cosmos seems to think so too, today. The stars may not 'fall down from the sky' but they have plenty more to say about you are to be born blessed (and cursed) with exceptional sensitivity. You can often tell what other people are thinking and feeling without any need for them to explain - or even to express themselves at all. Sometimes, that's a great gift but it can make you feel vulnerable. That is why you often deliberately close yourself off and strive to block out the transmissions that you are somewhat unhappy about receiving. Might you now be placing a barrier between yourself and someone who deserves more attention.As Someone is now telling you what they believe to be true. They believe it so passionately, they cannot conceive the idea that it may be false