Tuesday 28 August 2012

CHANGING MIND FOR BETTER

 Though we love,our nature is loving,caring and doing the things our loved one likes,but strange enough that we still have something which we don't like to share.Every body is like this,intimacy is one thing but telling all to every one is not even possible,far various reasons.Human nature has complexities.Everybody choose to reveal himself,others know only we tell them,or choose to tell them.
It was a sin in past,near and dear claimed that they should know each and every thing and not telling them anything was not tolerated. But  now we are at liberty,definitions of sincerity have been modified.Honesty is limited to actions not effecting the partner. Psychologists say there is a hidden secret place that each of us keep locked deep within us.
The world see what you chosen to reveal.So respect secret and sacred place within .
It is almost impossible  to reveal all to everyone,there are multiple dimensions to our personality,everything changed with change of angle. It is painful too!
Earlier it was considered that there should not be any secret between two person or a family,even in friendships.But now time has changed for better that everybody is  respecting ,limits of everything in relations.
Earlier I can change my mind or notions was considered as a symbol of indecisiveness, hesitant, wavering mind or like that. But actually it can prevent you from manipulation,giving in to an undesirable outcome.And depriving yourself of freedom to change your mind will lock you into rigid mindset.In 70s and 80s people work with sincerity with an institution or firm or a person through out their life,with no complaints as it was called sincerity. And now such mentalities are totally washed out,now money works and everybody works for money. Now it is confidence,opportunities  to success to frequently changing mind and jobs for pay hikes. It is called practicality.
Changing  mind for better option is good,but now a days in T.V. or media everybody is manipulating you by saying have you done so and so or when you are replacing you refrigerator  or car or so on ,  things are many,they are selling and T.V.  is displaying for its own benefits. For this,it would be better to collect full information about the things and products.For personal choices everybody is free to change mind and it is happening everywhere,even in relationships.In old movies still you can see old servants working there through out their life,it was in older time,people were not practical like now,they have real attachment to persons and it was considered good.Now it would be foolishness to work in same place entire life without monitory gains.Now savants do murders and kidnapping for money.This change of mind is not good. But money is playing foul games.
For any change be logical.Now a days MBA DEGREE HOLDERS perusing you to invest your hard earned money in various plans or to buy something and not letting you to have a second thought,they are trained to do so ,it they let you to think over,you may not purchase or buy from some one else some other day.These were some of temptations due to advertisements.
Changing mind means you have lost your invested credibilities. What would happen to our deep rooted belief system,change your mind,think wisely or give in to your temptations.Clever salesman or advertiser may label you indecisive or wrong,are you mentally prepared for? Balance of mind will decide which is more accurate and better or superior to the existing one.Do it until the better idea sprung up in your mind.So my dear choosing better options and changing mind is not always bad.
Say to self I WAS WRONG,I AM SORRY to relieve you of the pains. Being admitting your mistakes is virtue,it does not mean you have committed a sin.So trying to search truth in this way is sky level open freedom.Accept your fault without guilt as it is very human to make mistakes,but please for god's sake never repeat and cheat somebody.
Mostly we all are wrong in our some of notions and changing the track is good,face problems with courage to accept mistakes,then yobeliefsystemu are winner.  Renovation is good,so renovate-modified your ideas, and life style.Let you drop your heavy baggage of wrong notions,thoughts,ideas and get freedom.Here everybody is a salesman selling ideas, inefficiencies,honesty, work or anything  like that.You will see the difference when you will be honest with self and in touch with real feelings.Agents are be fooling us.We trust them,trust is not a bad thing but keep yours eyes open while dealing with other person. Everything is fair in love and war,today selling is equal to war winning customers is race.First test and tried then make decision.

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