Friday 31 August 2012

INTROSPECTION .................17

I   read somewhere that life always give you one chance to improve your lifestyle,to upgrade your present conditions,it does't matter how terrible sinner you are,there is always a wound before awakening.There are many stories,real life stories,which confirm this notion.Poet and saint Balmiki was one of them who was guided by saint Narada and his life was totally transformed from a dacoit to a saint. Another man known as Angulimaal, who had killed 1000 people and robbed of them,wear a garland of 1000 fingers,transformed by Goutam Budha. These men are from past history.I knew one of myself,who was not leading a happy life and abused by common people,once he determined to change his life-from a drunken man to a responsible householder and now his children are studying in higher classes,his wife is also satisfied with the improvement of her husband.
There are many who are very responsible ones,but treat badly their wives and subordinates,though they are character wise good,earning handsome money but their language is abusive. Making hell of life.They prefer to die but not admit they are doing anything wrong,what to say? Again only shoe wearer knows where the shoe pinches.There are endless examples here and there in every society and when awareness from inside happens,all will change by itself.People who always prove themselves right and all other are wrong,it is only their point of view.To make improvements rigidity has to be shunned.

Here you may get respite only by KARAMA philosophy. One will reap only what he  has  sown.  One may console self that despite all odds you are together. And life is no matter what---is worthliving and with your courage you will sail through all types of odds.

Beliefs have power to  move a mountain.All have sets of beliefs.Your belief system enable you to scale high mountains of odds, to improve relations you must take care of your dress code,how you carry yourself,second is your behaviour ,how you speak. Your patience is tested at every step.Try to understand needs of everybody and  need to move on in life,people do not care what you did elsewhere  and do not expect from you to know all.You may ask for help where you need it.Maintain  good relations all around and this can be done only hen you take a genuine interest in others,speak less and listen more,quite is better. These are tips to better lifestyle which one can had by being practical and shedding emotions,keeping your emotions in control will offer you more positive opportunities to excel in every area of your life-with god's grace and your intelligence!

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