Saturday 4 August 2012

WOMEN AND SOCIETY & WE

Once upon a time,men and women work together and live in harmony.They had only love and concern for each other. There would no complaints,no fights no ill feelings.Then all of sudden they become aware of you and me,the word I dominate their WE, all changed,love faded away. Now fears,conflicts, frustration cover their cheerfulness.Because our minds are conditioned that happiness is external thing and we will be happy when we have plenty of money,material things and all kind of luxuries

This is not limited to one person. This thought is spread all over the world .We are disturbed by our wrong doings that our intelligent does not allow us to do.You can not stand tall by standing next to someone shorter,or escape  by shutting our eyes,that we are not seeing  what is in front of us. We are a fragment, a part of society.What we do,affects the society as well.If we want fragmentation,conflict or torn between good or  bad,lost the charm of life.Women dominated by men or allow to be dominated by men.To bring change in society we have to change self,freeing self from superstitious and belief,we have to be eager to bring changes and to understand imitation stale the relationships.

Simple innocence,silence and pure love will open up new avenues in our life where we will find happiness.Society will change thought pattern and all will be good for everyone.In life there is no rewind or fast forward mode.We are bound to play the game of life till death. Men and women are equal in the eyes of god,the supreme power.We can command respect through actions,values and character. There is no substitute of hard work. To bring changes we are dreaming  with open eyes.See opportunities not hurdles.We have to learn to turn fear aggression,doubts,insecurities,hatred and emptiness into their opposites.Then there would be a great change in attitudes of people in the society.Only then we will understand that body does not need only food-it need success,money,status in society,securities whether emotional or otherwise.

Women and men relationship also effects society.Love is precious pearl deep in every heart,everyone  wanted to be loved  women or men should not seek money,status,property etc. through marriage.They should invest only love first and all other things next.In love there is a feeling of sacredness for love.When we cease to be creative and only imitate as it is fashion in our society.Then merely we are working without passion,according to memories,memory is response of thought process.Right thinking comes into being when there is no response to memory,passive alert and awareness led to creative pattern.All conflicts end.

Love is not learned.it happened when I is missing.Love comes into being  when you  have found yourself to be happy,communion with nature and human beings.But we are busy in thoughts always.
Women can convey much more in their silence than word,their pains,insecurities, unbearable indignities of relationships.Marriage is a social arrangement of living together,but  it is now have become only a contract.Our actions do not fallowing clarity, clarity of actons torn between respectability and what should it   be. Our society has changed and so are its values,now men and women ready to be in and out of a relationship when they desire.Even to the extent one night of fabulous passion,in the morning enjoying coffee and verbal lies,women float away on a cloud of joy,.after this encounter of soul and body,moving on separate ways. When they met and unceremoniously dumped each other.Men never mind and forget such things,but women attached emotionally ,suffer emotionally,but why they  let down their guard,they stop thinking and enjoyed unbridled lust with a willing mate.Men do not want to see them again,this is lost connection of affection.Think before you act
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When you get married  out of fear of loneliness,respectability and  getting other securities,Is it love?We wanted to have a cover and get it, why we demand love now?. Stop futile thinking,love will be- when thinker is not,you have to sacrifice  YOU- I- AND ME and merge all in love, for love is beyond the reaches of mind.End of I will bring  eternal beginning of love even in failed marriages,this way  you can bring drastic change in society, having  stable  relationship of men and women,giving emotional securities to their children .
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The world in the past had been ruled by force,men were dominating women by reason of his forcefulness and aggressive qualities,both of body and mind.But now in new era,balance is shifting,force is loosing its grip and now mental alertness,institutional  and spiritual qualities of love and service in which women is strong.New age is more permeated with feminine ideals,it will be an AGE in which the masculine nad feminine ideals are evenly balanced,the interdepedence among human beings can not be based on rigidly defined roles or obligations and there by war between two sexes will be utterly destroyed.

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