Monday 6 August 2012

REALITY OF LIFE

Very often we tend to be unhappy in the pursuit of finding unending happiness,we fail because of our inefficiency to deal with worldly affairs.The saints,the doctors or psychiatrists only advise us,but the actual efforts are in our own willingness to cope with the circumstances.We create a family,raise our children,provide them best of the best things,shower our love but do we get happiness? No!

What we get is illusive.When children are dependent they have no choice,once grown up and be independent same parents are out of date thing,not even a human being having sentiments.We have a negative  role  and set goals to get rid of all unhappiness.Actually  we have to admit that we are unable to confront it, we have to learn how to endure being unhappiness? A few ventured  to address this problem.

As human being we are doomed to suffer,our  ignorance must turn into knowledge, to relieve everybody.The effect side of life deserve great observations in our consideration. Considerations change all the exterior and interior of relationships.The self side  need examination,to create those effects which others could easily experience will give us a new  rule of living. On personal level our problems could be different so others have difficulty to understand it.Others are unable to understand,life become worse,is't it?

Those actions which could not be experienced by others are bad because there would be a communicational gap.If a person is unable to know others,or know a little about others problem or he is not willing to know what problems others are suffering the life would become like a hell.Because he would not have a feeling,feeling is missing-how could he guess.Affinity is knowing other person problem and have feelings too .Affinity,reality and communication works together,only shoe wearer knows where the shoe pinches.

Affinity,reality and  communication-either of three should be high to keep other two high but none of these three should not be low otherwise all three would be low and  then all acts are worse because other is ignorant,your thoughts are not reaching to the person.Fill the gap between you and you,many of your problems will be solved,but this is not an easy practice.We understand those things and action which had been done to us and not to others so there is always a gap to be filled,fill this gap or it would be widen with passage of time and you would lost  relations/person.

Actually like politics,if you are practising  it on other or you own benefits it is good,but if others playing it  politics,it is bad. Same is with other acts as violence,insanity or heavy loss,the things which we could not experience ourselves were not as bad as if we had suffered those.This lack of feeling that this is not happening to me/us,let it be way it is.Is it good for humanity as a whole?Things changing with change of point of views.Your reaction to the things will determine the degree of severity of actions.

Be able to experience anything and cause only those things which others are able to experience easily.Your reaction to those things which others are able to experience easily.Your reaction to these tell how far you have yet to go!

For permanent state of bliss we have to find out our true nature,beyond name and form.For this we have to get connected with supreme power.This connectedness with immeasurable and indestructible will create oneness with whole universe,no separation.Our own thinking create a wall,imaginary world of our own concepts,ideas,judgements,images,words and definitions we give. then all come between  you and yourself,between you and the world,between you and nature,between you and fellow men and women -above all between you and GOD.

We shut our eyes and cry it is dark everywhere,who is to blame? We forget underneath the physical bodies a soul resides-and soul is extension to source,source is GOD.It is  not as easy as it sounds,it need a lot of practice even yogis spend most of their time in this process.Freeing mind is not an easy game,once you gained this state,you are awakened and realised the truth.The beauty,love,joy everything will emerge from inside then we can well understand that all our cries were wasteful  activities. Little feeble voice within,listen to that impartially,actually we all have habit of excuses,excusing self and cursing others.Go deeper and deeper,no medicine you will need as you are connected with source of energy.

Everything will be same as it had been since time unknown,but we are new now,we have done renewal of mind state,now we do not listen to mind,thought come and go not affecting self.our energy is conserved and now we have no expectation from others so we are happy.Root cause of our unhappiness is our own expectations,which are essence of ordinary person.And when we are happy within no outer causes will be able to disturb us.Problems have solutions within the problem.

YOU CAN NOT COMPEL ANYONE TO LOVE YOU.YOU HAVE TO EARN IT THROUGH YEARS AND YEARS OF DEMONSTRATING YOUR SINCERITY.YOU CAN NOT EXPECT TO HAVE OVERNIGHT FAN CLUB.YOU HAVE TO CONSTANTLY WORK  FOR IT.

So demand love from god,love of human is based on disguised expectations.Our wanting to be desire-less is itself a big desire. You have to shed your identity ,you have to merge self with lover.It is a difficult task.Having no identity-we even can not think of it.

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