if your life is currently full of people who are so keen to persuade you to dance to their tune and meet their needs that they will stop at almost nothing. Only you have the power to make them stop.  It is, in essence, all about the nature of your own identity.If you know as much as you think you know, how come there is still so much that you don't know? And if you don't think that such gaps in your knowledge exist, doesn't that just tell us that you don't even know how little you know; and that, therefore, even what you think you do know is questionable?If life is not putting you in a position from which it is possible to make an important discovery, how can you most effectively repay the favour and show respect for what you are being offered?