We must learn how to turn troublesome situations into advantageous one.For some strange reason we seem to imagine that miracles need to be dramatic. They must involve things we weren't expecting, things we can't explain, things that somehow make no sense. But is a flower not a miracle? And what about snowdrops? Does not every atom, every molecule, every tiny building block of this amazing universe represent a miracle in its own way? And what about you? Aren't you made out of miracles? Why then would miracles not happen around you?The tiniest thing can sometimes seem to make such a difference. We wake up in the morning, we reach for all the things that represent our regular routine. If something is missing, if it cannot be found or it cannot be had, we may end up feeling as if we have been thrown into disarray. What else may be about to go wrong? For how many more disappointments should we steel ourselves? Yet, for all that it is disorienting you, something is starting to work itself out just about perfectly When researchers test new medicines, they give the real formula to one group of patients and supply another group with sugar pills. Even doctors aren't told which is which. It is a key part of the scientific process. It is not true to say that the sugar pills never help anybody. 
Some people get better, even if that is all they ever take.
 The very belief that they are getting what they need, somehow helps them to heal. Don't let anyone tell you that your faith in a positive possibility .whether you may be begrudging something you ought to be celebrating.If something is 'as good as it is ever likely to get', doesn't that make it as good as you could ever hope for it to be? Even if it is flawed or has downsides and drawbacks, shouldn't you be grateful for the fact that you have come close to the fulfilment of an ideal? Or perhaps you secretly feel as if 'as good as it gets' just isn't good enough for you? But that is a bit of an unreasonably high standard to uphold, isn't it?
None of us are here forever. We are visitors to this world, not permanent residents. Sad though that may be, just imagine what life would be like if it went on forever. If you were immortal and everyone else wasn't, you would soon grow lonely. And if we all became eternal beings? We would bore each other senseless. The Creator's decision to make every existence brief, was a wise one! It serves as a reminder of the need to treasure every moment. You have so many reasons to be thankful. Whenever an asteroid is going to pass surprisingly close to the earth. There is absolutely no chance of a collision but this has not stopped some people from becoming very anxious. 'Oh, but what if it hits us?' That is like standing by the side of a freeway, watching the traffic race by and thinking, 'If one of those cars spun off the road now, where would I be?' Such doomy thoughts are easy to entertain, especially if they are based on an idea that sounds viable, even if it isn't. Banish them. Is there a song in your heart? Is there a skip in your step? Do you feel a little glow of excitement each time you think about a particular possibility and the pleasure that this may be able to afford you? Really, this encouraging thought should now be helping to chase all cares and concerns from your mind. If something is still eating away at you, you must be giving it far too much attention.

 Do you feel 'Sorry when you appear to be in a bit of a tricky position at that moment no one can  solve  problem on your behalf but a force  to protect  and lift you fully out of harm's way is your own positive attitude and faith. It may look as if you have trouble and don't tend to be very good at acting on life reasonably. The phrase 'chill out' doesn't usually mean very much then. Because you are constantly aware of all that you want to accomplish and of the very short time - seem to have available. One may often become very successful but if they aren't careful, they upset companions with sharp remarks while the need is to go  gently on someone's feelings, even though you must remain determined to achieve success for yourself. In other words have best of best without harming others. Lovely suggestions from my friend Jonathan cainer.