FUTILE WORRIES

Once upon a time there was a man who was afraid of being burgled. Feeling that he could never go out and relax, knowing that he had left his house unprotected he purchased and installed the world's most extravagant, intricate system of sensors and sirens. Did this put his mind at rest? No! Now he started worrying that someone would steal his alarm! That's the nature of anxiety. You don't overcome it by pandering to it so take sensible precautions by all means but you need fear nothing and nobody. When You start seeing yourself in a new light. As you do so, you are altering your view of another person or group. 
You are understanding much more yet you are also getting more confused. Things were clearer when you subscribed to a previous point of view. Ignorance isn't really bliss. But it is, usually, attractively simple. That's why there's so much of it about. But you'll soon come to like your more enlightened view much more. Knowledge is power. And you'll soon gain precious power over a crucial situation.
Take a look in the mirror. Do you like every single part of what you see? Then look longer. Keep staring until your doubts begin to disappear and you start to grow truly enamoured by the image. Never mind how long it takes. now  try to see exceptional opportunities in life. Much is on offer to you. But in order for any of it to become real, you must find the confidence to claim your prize. You now have every reason in the world to be proud of every aspect of yourself. Allow that confidence to grow.
What if the stairway is blocked and the elevator is broken? What if the only way to reach the next floor is to go up the down-escalator. Then, if you merely proceed at a reasonably brisk pace, you will simply find that it takes all your energy just to stand still. You might well conclude that the exercise is pointless and you ought just to give up. But if you were only to persevere and try just that little bit harder, you could yet attain your goal... and achieve so much more. Going the extra mile this week will pay big dividends.
Poor and content is rich, and rich enough; But rich is as poor as winter. To him that ever fears he shall be poor.' The words come from Shakespeare's Othello. The message is as old as time. It's not what we have that makes us happy. Nor is it what we don't have that makes us sad. What harms us is what we wish we had but cannot get or, worse, what we fear we may lose so put fears aside. You have much joy to look forward to!
Most of us are not mind-readers. All of us are psychics. How can both statements be true? Because we are so inherently sensitive that we develop defence mechanisms at an early age. We close down, clam up, blank out and gloss over the subtle signs and signals that are all around us, just waiting to be noticed. We decide that it is hard enough dealing with our own feelings without feeling what others feel. If you choose to hear it,  you can receive a valuable message and be of great help to someone. Messages from Jonathan cainer.