People say, 'Oh, that Mr Cainer. His words are always so cheerful. It is as if he just can't bring himself to give anyone bad news.' That's not fair. I would be derelict in my duty if I didn't alert you to possible pitfalls and problems.These are sincere words of my guide-friend Mr.Jonathan Cainer.I religiously read his words early in the morning and judge hidden meanings of his words and wises.I do publish his words for all,to get benefit of words wonder,yes words do wonders when they are filled with sincerity and wisdom.
Chalk and cheese don't compete. Camembert and brie, on the other hand, run a close contest. Chalk is more of a monopoly. It doesn't compete with itself - or with much else - apart from, maybe, marker pens and white boards. All chalk is much of a muchness whereas cheese... Well, from a distance, your situation may seem similar to someone else's but the more closely we look at it, the more we see how unique you are.

Ignore your own secret fear, of 'winning the wrong battle' and set out in search now, of the change you truly desire Do you sometimes feel that the more you give, the more someone else seems to take? Does a relationship seem to involve a process of endless negotiation? Or does it even seem as if you are so isolated that there's nothing to negotiate about?. If things never slowed down from time to time, we'd miss the excitement of watching them speed up. If pipes (and processes) never clogged up, we'd not realise how pleasing it is to see a fast throughput. There's a reason why something in your life has become stuck or stale. It's so you can now have the joy of breathing new life back into it.

 First, you've got to work out how you ended up where you didn't want to be.What would we all do without you? That's a worrying notion. Slowly but surely, we have come to rely on you. We know that whatever happens, you will be there for us. So, if we make mistakes, we need not worry. If our judgement proves poor, we will escape the repercussions. If we get ourselves into trouble, you will get us out of it. It's awfully good of you. Are you sure you don't mind? Don't you feel a teeny bit put upon? Remember that you do have the right,to let someone clear up their own mess.You wish a sensitive situation made more sense, somehow. You're willing to understand the circumstances, happy to make allowances for pressing problems, keen to do all you can to reduce tension and facilitate a sweeter, easier future. Yet the more you try to see another person's point of view, the more confused you become. Is there something they aren't telling you? Is there an issue you're simply not able to see in the right light?
State your preference. Announce your intention. And then? Just do all you can to attain your objective. You may not fully succeed even situation  don't assure you an ability to get exactly what you want, when and where you want it. But they do offer you the certainty that there is no harm in trying to reach the highest goal. You will learn something. Remember,  that the upshot of this educational process, could well prove the stepping-stone to a future that's far happier in many ways .
Most people, even when they go to fancy-dress parties, find it hard to keep up a persona. Soon, they revert to the person they are in the 'real world'. Yet our jobs and lifestyles are also masks! We do ourselves a great disservice when we judge each other by these... or by the social status we hold. If,  you focus less on who you feel you ought to be, or would like to become and more on who you truly are in your heart of hearts, all the right hearts will resonate with yours and all the right things will happen.what lies ahead is not always as useful as we imagine. When we're too aware of what's in store, we stop properly giving our energy to the present. We dwell on what may be coming up yet, unless there's a definite step we can take to influence the outcome of a process, what's the point in knowing? The future is ahead. By the time you get to it, you'll be ready for it.
 For best results,  try to 'live in the now'!Must life be an endless battle? Must every moment be tense and troublesome? Can't there ever be ease and peace, comfort and security, respectful co-existence and joyous celebration? Well, of course there can. And sometimes, we go through a phase when life really does seem to be worth living, regardless of all that's disappointing or aggravating.To open an enormous door, you only need a tiny key. To solve a baffling mystery, you only need a small clue. 
It currently seems as if something vast and daunting is preventing you from making progress. Yet all you really require is a little piece of information. A word or two from the right person. An idea from the right part of your own imagination. A seemingly trivial discovery is about to make a very big difference.intense conversations, some of which are 'informed' by difficult memories. When we're stirred up by a hurtful recollection, we tend to become defensive, keeping at bay some of the very support and understanding we most crave. Others are inclined to reach out to us till they sense that we may be more inclined to shut them out than let them in. But if you are now open to inspiring new changes in your life... they can occur! 
Even jazz musicians rehearse some aspects of their spontaneity. They practise solos. They explore variations on themes. They build a platform of experience and ability before they depart from it on the spur of the moment. You're dealing with a situation that you don't feel fully at home with. The luxury of time and research is not available. But in the midst of all that's unfamiliar, there's one thing you know well. Use that as a basis and improvise on it.  Your heart will yet lead you to the right choices.The phrase 'chill out' doesn't usually mean very much to them. They are constantly aware of all that they want to accomplish and of the very short time they seem to have available. They often become very successful but if they aren't careful, they upset companions with sharp remarks.  Go gently on someone's feelings if you want to reach a goal but in order to do so you will have to trust a guide who will help you overcome the obstacles. You will have innocence of a child but then thanks to experience,you will finally reach selfawareness.