Before you set out to answer a particular question, perhaps you should ask yourself why you are asking it? What is it that you really need to know? And to what extent are you trying to narrow down a wide field of possibility by pursuing a particular area of investigation? Are you secretly hoping to hear a negative response that will somehow confirm your worst suspicion? Or free you from the need to pursue what could prove to be an exhausting objective? Try to find the courage, to be open to what naturally turns up.