The best way to get this is to step out of the way of all and any arguments  Be a peacemaker if you can. If you can't, just resist the temptation to add to trouble. Be a peacemaker if you can. If you can't, just resist the temptation to add to trouble Not everything is perfect, but one factor in our life is  becoming a lot better than it was. Emotionally, to feel more secure. There is less to worry about, less to fear and less to threaten. Trust the progress that is automatically happening in this area of our life and start looking for ways to deepen and strengthen it. For, with effort and wisdom now, we can make smart moves and wise decisions that somehow enable us to improve your position permanently.