There are social obligations that  must be fulfilled by us.Wait for an awakening of motivation, an emergence of ambition and a change of attitude.If see anything new or  anything  different, things will soon start to look rather different so start to see things in a fresh light and no longer feel so stuck, so trapped within or so fed up about any silly situation. You may still be caught up in it - but it is no longer a locked room. You have the key. Nobody is guarding the exit. A world of possibility is opening up.. Are you hoping that if you can convince yourself of something the rest of the world will be convinced, too? You can relax. Despite all appearances to the contrary, you are in a surprisingly secure position when you have learn your lessons of life.