There are some things we don't want to know too much about in advance. The fun is in the finding out-  a life-changing, future-shaping encounter or discovery, or re-discovery be about to light up your life soon? There may be two sides to every story but there's no law that says we have to listen to both. We can be biased if we wish. And prejudiced. And unreasonably opinionated. If the story involves someone we love, we can hardly help but see it from their point of view. Who cares whether the other person has 'right' on their side. We want things to work out in our friend's favour.  Planet Earth. What a place. So full of magic, beauty and grace. It is, of course, also full of chaos, confusion and conflict. But then, that's why we love it. It adds to the variety and the drama. What's that? Sometime we get upset and say we've had enough drama and want peace, comfort, and contentment? Have patienceWhy wash the dishes? They'll only get dirty again. Why vacuum the rug? There'll be more dust along soon. We know the reason why. It's because there are some exercises that we need to repeat regularly, even if they are tiresome. Yet we feel that if we have to let go of a negative emotion, it ought only to have to happen once. Or if we decide to forgive someone, we'd be a fool if we ever had to forgive them again. But sometimes important emotional process needs to take as long as it takes. Be prepared for that  To summon the highest magic and promote the greatest healing now, be subtle. If you want more joy and less stress in your emotional life, face the issue that you are more inclined to fight.  Trust, please, that no mistake has been made and no irreparable damage has been done. Even if things seem less than ideal, or you are under the kind of pressure that is difficult to accept, what's happening has its purpose. A balance of power is shifting in the right way.