Would you prefer to stop talking and start taking positive action?Do you want to argue over a minor detail - or do you want to appreciate the bigger picture? Do you want to get drawn into an endless debate?
Actually at such times we need breadth of vision far more than need depth of emotion.Then it would become clear that you are better off than you thought you were.You may be better off accepting that you are out of your depth in a key area of life and deciding to stop trying so hard to understand and control everything. No matter what seems impossible, if your quest for a deeper kind of happiness is sincere we will get what we want!You feel happier when you feel that you are in charge of your own destiny going through an inner process of re-evaluation. It is immensely profound and positive.  Fear comes from two sources: things that are real, and things that are not. See a slow change for the better.What's done is done. It cannot be changed.What on earth possessed you to pick this particular direction? There's something wild, crazy and faintly ridiculous about the situation you find yourself in. No matter how successful we are or how blessed we may be, we will always go through fretful, fearful, phases.it is to learn how to handle them. Everything happen for good!