Because relationships are complicated and it is human to worry about them. Of course we know that when it comes to knowing where you stand in love, communication is key.  When it comes to communicating with someone how you feel, what you want, and ask where things are going, our nerves can beat us to the punch and ensure we never end up having that anxious conversation. That’s all part of being human too.The bossy one launching this talk, maintain the control.  if other appear bossy and you love them, you will have to let them as this will never change.