If you want to reduce tension, avoid conversation! Some topics do not need as much discussion as they seem to be getting, and arguments will be resolved more easily if they are given less energy. You have the power to transform your life but it requires determination, discrimination and discretion.We can draw up quite a list of people who feel sure that a part of you belongs to them lots of ways to express your feelings. This is all very flattering, but it implies a great responsibility.