They say that we all 'create our own realities'. Through what we choose to believe, how we act, the factors we pay attention to and the issues that we take seriously, we develop our own unique understanding of the world and how it works. Then the world, very obligingly, seems to provide us with verification of our view. One unfortunate side-effect of this process is that it can help us to become, not just set in our ways, but entrenched in them. Try to see a situation differently and it will begin to change. Gone are the days when we used to think incarnations,I strongly feels that the theory of incarnation is often an excuse for not making the most of the life we actually have.