Spiritual guides and teachers often advise us ' to live in the here and now'. They are right. We should. But that does not mean that we should forget the past or ignore the future. While making the most of the moment we are experiencing right now, we must take care to avoid the assumption that nothing will ever change. You very much want a particular situation to alter. So far, you can see little sign of this happening. But a positive process has already been set in motion and will eventually bring a most rewarding result.It won't disappear if you ignore it. And if you decide to run from it, it will follow you. So that leaves only one option. Face it, fair and square. Of course you don't WANT to do this. But that's because not only are things seemingly 'going wrong', you are assuming that this must be your fault. How so? You don't know for certain that your situation actually IS bad. And, even if it is, you certainly cannot claim total ownership or authorship of it. Focus your energy now, on a positive solution not a negative attribution.We often think of our friends as assets. We feel (or ought to feel) proud to know them. We don't mind sharing, lending or introducing them to our other friends. If they are truly our friends, we need not feel a loss of their loyalty and their value will only increase, through their being allowed to interact with our other assets. Why would we want to be protective or to keep those special people in our lives away from one another? A key relationship now has become unnecessarily convoluted. Here is a chance to make it truly