There are so many things that you don't understand about the people around you and the situations that you are a part of. You can tell a tale and it can go into quite some detail, yet there are missing bits and pieces; statements that cry out for further explanation. Could it be that there is actually something you have still to understand about yourself? If you would like to arrive at that elusive understanding, you must be careful not to cling too tightly to the first explanation or justification that springs to mind.