People rarely do what they ought to do. They react badly to situations that they should be able to take in their stride. They become defensive about issues that really don't merit anxiety or concern. When we see others becoming unnecessarily upset, we do our best to reassure them. It is never so easy, though, to compensate for our own fears and foibles. Don't accept all criticisms. Do, though, listen with sensitivity to someone who is only sincerely trying to offer you their wisdom and support.