In your emotional life now, duty calls. Well, actually, it isn't so much calling as yelling. Maybe it is even developing a rather irritating high-pitched whine. What is this obligation, this promise you want to honour or this role you feel you simply must play? This is the question to address bravely now. Either it's real and worthy, in which case you should be giving it your all without any sense of regret and resentment - or it's artificial, imagined and irrelevant. If so, why are you letting it dominate your thoughts so strongly?