It's important now to keep that in mind. You are where you are, in your emotional life now for a reason. Once you get where you are going next, you will feel much happier about all that you had to go through in order to get there. Try asking whether something is wise or unwise. We can't always know. Sometimes we do things that seem silly yet which turn out sensible. Remember pains and pleasures both give us lesson to be learnt.
Don't, lie down and let someone walk all over you. A stressful situation always take its toll on health. It makes you feel edgy and uneasy. Strained, drained, tired and wired. Understandably so. Circumstances when become very silly. And nobody seems willing to do the right or proper thing. Nobody, that is, apart from you - or so it seems.Whenever you are overburdened, but remember somebody will not pick up the load until you put it down!