People talk to each other all the time, yet they rarely listen to each other. We have all noticed this. We hardly ever expect to be understood. Strangely, though, the fact that we all communicate so poorly doesn't mean that we never exert influence over the lives of others. We may not listen, but we certainly watch examples and emulate them. So, whose idea are you following? If it's your own, trust it. If it's not, question it. You may be doing something difficult now but that doesn't make it wrong or bad.